{"id":40223,"date":"2023-12-10T01:57:15","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:57:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/neu-muon-vuot-qua-kho-khan-hien-tai-thi-day-la-hai-dieu-ban-can-lam-truoc-tien.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T07:26:31","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:26:31","slug":"neu-muon-vuot-qua-kho-khan-hien-tai-thi-day-la-hai-dieu-ban-can-lam-truoc-tien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/neu-muon-vuot-qua-kho-khan-hien-tai-thi-day-la-hai-dieu-ban-can-lam-truoc-tien.html","title":{"rendered":"N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” (hole) m\u00e0 ban \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t n\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh “\u0111\u00e0o” ch\u00fang s\u00e2u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ty t\u00f4i c\u0169ng v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng, \u0111ang ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd b\u1ecb r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7”. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n thay cho b\u1ea1n b\u1edfi v\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ai trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00edt th\u1eddi gian d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eefng “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7”.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c – h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh trong c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhanh c\u00f2n ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec qu\u00e1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i l\u00ean m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7”, ngay c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “\u0111\u00e0o” b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc x\u1ebbng m\u1ea1 v\u00e0ng. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n d\u1eebng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"Kh\u1ee7ng<\/p>\n

1. Ng\u1eebng “\u0111\u00e0o” \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7”<\/h2>\n

Khi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng vui x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u1ecb r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng “l\u1ed7” th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 d\u1eebng “\u0111\u00e0o”.<\/p>\n

D\u1eebng l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t xung quanh v\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1ch quan, trung th\u1ef1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 ngh\u0129a \u0111en: C\u00e1i l\u1ed7 c\u00f3 t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 m\u00f9i \u1ea9m \u01b0\u1edbt c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea9n kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7”.<\/p>\n

X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 ngh\u0129a b\u00f3ng: Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n\/th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i\/th\u1eed th\u00e1ch\/s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng\/n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n… m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t l\u00e0 g\u00ec? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f3c, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

V\u1eady th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n:<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e3y thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i thay v\u00ec c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa (d\u1eebng \u0111\u00e0o). \u0110\u1eebng t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, sai l\u1ea7m, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c trong nh\u00f3m v\u1ec1 sai s\u00f3t do ch\u00ednh c\u1ea3 Team g\u00e2y ra, \u0111\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3…. \u0110\u1eebng “th\u00eam d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda” v\u00ec ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n “\u0111\u00e0o” s\u00e2u h\u01a1n khi\u1ebfn “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

\"Kh\u1ee7ng<\/p>\n

Trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc thang” \u2013 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ghi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ra gi\u1ea5y, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap t\u00f4i ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc thang” v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7”.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, ngay c\u1ea3 khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1edf trong “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u v\u1eady. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, h\u00e3y nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eadt s\u1edbm.<\/p>\n

2. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng an \u1ee7i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7”<\/h2>\n

Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111a ph\u1ea7n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u00ecnh \u0111ang r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7”. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu hay \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p.<\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n h\u00e9t l\u00ean v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “N\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea5y!”.<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e9t tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i: “Kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111ang \u1edf tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i r\u00e3nh tr\u00f2n th\u00f4i!”<\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kia l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c: “N\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i l\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec c\u00e1i kia c\u1ea3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e9t \u1ea7m \u0129 l\u00ean: “Kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i \u0111ang tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i r\u00e3nh tr\u00f2n!”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n th\u00ec th\u1ea7m:<\/em> “V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng sao c\u1ea3”.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Theo th\u1eddi gian, b\u1ea1n d\u1ea7n quen v\u1edbi “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

\"Kh\u1ee7ng<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/strong> N\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng, h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu doanh nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kinh doanh thua l\u1ed7, h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng “chi\u1ebfc l\u1ed7” (hole) m\u00e0 ban \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t n\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh “\u0111\u00e0o” ch\u00fang s\u00e2u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40223"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40223"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40223\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40223"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40223"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40223"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}