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Trong b\u1ed9 phim My Fair Lady<\/strong>, Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Henry Higgins<\/strong> (do Rex Harrison \u0111\u00f3ng) \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u00ed h\u1eadu, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, qu\u00e2n s\u1ef1, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ecf n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i. C\u00e1c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb gia kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i v\u1edbi nhau qu\u00e1 5 ph\u00fat, b\u1ea1n v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng “block” b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec status m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1edfi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u00edch h\u1ecd. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ef1c \u0111oan h\u01a1n, chia r\u1ebd h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang ta \u00edt th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p, \u00edt l\u1eafng nghe, \u00edt chia s\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ai, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ai d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fa th\u00edch<\/span>: B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 d\u1ecbch l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 Celeste Headlee trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean TED Talks v\u1edbi ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 “10 ways to have a better conversation”<\/strong> (10 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n). Trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng One Second Thought tr\u00ean Georgia Public Broadcasting c\u00f9ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u Talk Show n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng kh\u00e1c, Celeste Headlee \u0111\u00e3 t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd b\u00e1u gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Celeste<\/em><\/p>\n

Theo Celeste Headlee, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa n\u00f3i v\u00e0 nghe<\/strong>. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. B\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng minh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 khi\u1ebfn giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1ecb h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t nhau, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em c\u0169ng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 10 th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 Celeste Headlee \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/p>\n

1. L\u1eafng nghe<\/h2>\n

L\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 “\u00e1m \u1ea3nh” th\u00edch n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nghe, Celeste chia s\u1ebb: “Khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u1edf trong t\u1ea7m ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nghe b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t c\u00e1 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“\u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n nghe: khi b\u1ea1n m\u1edf mi\u1ec7ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec”.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n nghe \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean. V\u00e0 Calvin Coolidge c\u0169ng t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: “Ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 ai t\u1eebng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1.”<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Celeste<\/p>\n

2. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng l\u00fac<\/h2>\n
\u00a0<\/div>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft khi l\u00e0m th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 (b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec) trong khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9. Celeste nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. “H\u00e3y c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp. \u0110\u1eebng suy ngh\u0129 xem m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0103n g\u00ec t\u1ed1i nay”<\/em>. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn ti\u1ebfp, h\u00e3y r\u1eddi \u0111i thay v\u00ec n\u1eeda mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, n\u1eeda l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh xa h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

3. \u0110\u1eebng kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. C\u00f3 ai mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thuy\u1ebft gi\u1ea3ng m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

“M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u00eau \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu, nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3n bi\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i th\u00ec h\u00e3y vi\u1ebft blog”<\/em>. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n tham gia v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, thi tho\u1ea3ng, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng lu\u1ed3ng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

4. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf<\/h2>\n

H\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0: v\u1edbi ai, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, khi n\u00e0o, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, t\u1ea1i sao <\/strong>v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o<\/strong>. “N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n”<\/em>, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 “b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd kh\u00f4ng?”, “c\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd”. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n. Do v\u1eady, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf: “B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?”. Khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e0y, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n “s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Celeste<\/p>\n

5. Thu\u1eadn theo t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/h2>\n

G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i n\u00e0y: Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i, b\u1ea1n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n xen v\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c, trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ch\u1edd (m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn) cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i xong v\u00e0 n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

Theo Celeste, trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, kh\u00e1ch m\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ph\u00fat r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi t\u1edbi l\u01b0\u1ee3t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ch\u1eb3ng \u0103n nh\u1eadp g\u00ec v\u1edbi c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1eebng nghe trong v\u00e0i ph\u00fat v\u00ec ch\u1ee3t ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c (th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n) v\u00e0 anh ta nh\u1ea5t quy\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecfi. “B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng h\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

6. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i “t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft”<\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n khi b\u1ecb ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 \u0111ang n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u1ed1c ngh\u1ebfch \u0111\u00e2u. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean trung th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

“H\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u00e9m ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng”.<\/em><\/p>\n

7. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

\"Celeste<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1eebng k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ra. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 gi\u1ed1ng nhau m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. \u0110\u1eebng t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan hay gi\u1ecfi ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng. “C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi Stephen Hawking ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, \u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. Ai kho\u00e1c l\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i”.<\/em><\/p>\n

8. \u0110\u1eebng nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i<\/h2>\n

L\u00fd do r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n: Nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/strong>. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trung t\u00e2m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111i \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

“\u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u1edf ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m, ho\u1eb7c khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb, khi c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 nhai \u0111i nhai l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00fac. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf”.<\/em><\/p>\n

9. \u0110\u1eebng lan man<\/h2>\n

Celeste g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 “h\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf c\u1ecf d\u1ea1i”.<\/em> B\u1ea1n tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chi ti\u1ebft c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 khi c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe th\u00ec h\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ed1 n\u0103m, t\u00ean g\u1ecdi, ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng, nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 n\u1eb7n \u00f3c ra \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1edb”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Celeste<\/p>\n

Stephen Covey t\u1eebng n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u r\u1ea5t hay. “H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u1edbi \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe v\u1edbi \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.”<\/em><\/p>\n

10. H\u00e3y ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn<\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00edch d\u00e0nh h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y ai th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 “bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n” c\u1ea3. Celeste nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh: “M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc v\u00e1y ng\u1eafn; ng\u1eafn, \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 bao tr\u00f9m c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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