{"id":40257,"date":"2023-12-10T01:58:43","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:58:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/8-ki-vong-khong-tuong-co-the-lam-hai-cuoc-doi-ban.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T07:17:53","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:17:53","slug":"8-ki-vong-khong-tuong-co-the-lam-hai-cuoc-doi-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/8-ki-vong-khong-tuong-co-the-lam-hai-cuoc-doi-ban.html","title":{"rendered":"8 k\u00ec v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"content-detail textview\">\n<p>H\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi n\u00f3i t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb LSU ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng <strong>si\u00eau nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/strong> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u01a1n. Si\u00eau nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch hay m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1edfi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u01b0\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1 hay ho v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c k\u00ec v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u0103m 1960, nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a Havard \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng <strong>s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh trong ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong>. Trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y (\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean) th\u00f4ng minh th\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u00e0 trong c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra IQ chu\u1ea9n. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t khi ch\u00fang ta tin v\u00e0o h\u1ecd. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 b\u1edfi khi ch\u00fang ta tin v\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-hinh-anh.jpg\" width=\"510\" height=\"269\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Khi ph\u1ee7 b\u00f3ng nghi ng\u1edd l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi (ho\u1eb7c v\u1eadt) n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia y t\u1ebf g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng &#8220;nocebo&#8221;. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ch\u1eefa b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 k\u00ec v\u1ecdng th\u1ea5p v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 quy tr\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hy v\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb c\u00f3 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng cao v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c minh nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ch\u00fat ho\u00e0i nghi hay t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gia t\u0103ng.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ec v\u1ecdng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3 m\u1eb7t v\u1eadt l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. H\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u01a1n (v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn h\u01a1n) v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng sai l\u1ea7m s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n 1 c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y b\u1edfi n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 g\u00e2y ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng<\/h2>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u l\u1ea7n (v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng n\u00f3i h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u l\u1ea7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c) r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 d\u00f9 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n. Trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta k\u00ec v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 b\u1eb1ng 1 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ngay c\u1ea3 khi ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang k\u1eb9t trong t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u00fac lo\u1ea1i n\u00f3 ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 &#8220;b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng&#8221; x\u1ea3y ra, <strong>\u0111\u1eebng tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i<\/strong> \u0111\u1ec3 &#8220;\u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111i ti\u1ebfp&#8221;. \u0110\u00f4i khi s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 n\u00e0o c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng nhanh ch\u00f3ng th\u00f4i k\u00ec v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-cong-bang.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"246\" \/><\/p>\n<div id=\"articleads2\" class=\"adbox in-article adsense\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<h2>2. C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd t\u1eeb tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng<\/h2>\n<p>M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e1nh li\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 mong c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. B\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c hay c\u00f3 1 c\u00f4ng ty b\u00e1n \u00f4 t\u00f4 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea3y ra. <strong>Ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/strong>, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 xem c\u00e1i g\u00ec thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang \u0111\u1ebfn, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n n\u1eb1m d\u01b0\u1edbi quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi n\u00e0o b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 &#8220;<em>b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n \u0111i l\u00e0 g\u00ec?&#8221;, &#8220;c\u00f3 tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0o ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n hay kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ch\u00fang?&#8221; v\u00e0 &#8220;m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111ang m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa h\u01a1n hay kh\u00f4ng?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-co-hoi.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"459\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u00f4i<\/h2>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong suy ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 1 s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. Khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00edch (s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0<strong> b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm l\u00f2ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/strong>). Khi gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u00edch m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eaft, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Thay v\u00ec hy v\u1ecdng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u00edch m\u00ecnh, <strong>h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-thich-toi.jpg\" width=\"564\" height=\"466\" \/><\/p>\n<div id=\"articleads3\" class=\"adbox in-article\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<h2>4. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi t\u00f4i<\/h2>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi tr\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng hy v\u1ecdng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00ec t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 hay l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1edfi kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau. V\u00ec th\u1ebf <strong>\u0111\u1eebng t\u1ecf ra th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong> v\u00e0 h\u00e3y th\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 1 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-dong-y.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>5. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i<\/h2>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n nghe. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u00ec v\u1ecdng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i &#8211; <strong>b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/strong>. D\u00f9 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra ng\u1eef c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch 1 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u1ea3 1 n\u1ed9i dung l\u1edbn, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecf qua th\u00f4ng tin kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan b\u1edfi cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Giao ti\u1ebfp s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec cho t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian hi\u1ec3u quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-giao-tiep.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>6. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/h2>\n<p>Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi \u1edf tr\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00f4i khi m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 l\u00fac th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i 1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y tin v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-that-bai.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>7. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/h2>\n<div class=\"adbox adsense in-article\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p>Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1ed3i, trong ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u v\u1ec1 d\u00e0i th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta <strong>k\u00ec v\u1ecdng c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong> (v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 &#8220;t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c) thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i, ch\u1eb3ng 1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n bao nhi\u00eau.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-hanh-phuc.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>8. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i anh \u1ea5y hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 duy nh\u1ea5t 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i &#8211; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n<\/strong>. V\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng t\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. S\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ai \u0111\u00f3 khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 &#8220;ch\u1ec9nh&#8221; h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y th\u00f4i k\u00ec v\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh xung quanh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-732\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/06\/08\/ki-vong-sai-lam-thay-doi.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"389\" \/><\/p>\n<p>T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i th\u00ec tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng cao h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i k\u00ec v\u1ecdng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai l\u1ea7m n\u00f3i tr\u00ean b\u1edfi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ng\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Travis Bradberry<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi n\u00f3i t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb LSU ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng <strong>si\u00eau nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/strong> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u01a1n. Si\u00eau nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch hay m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1edfi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u01b0\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40257"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40257"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40257\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40257"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40257"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40257"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}