{"id":40292,"date":"2023-12-10T01:59:34","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:59:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/cuoc-song-se-thay-doi-khi-ban-ngung-cho-doi.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T07:07:58","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:07:58","slug":"cuoc-song-se-thay-doi-khi-ban-ngung-cho-doi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/cuoc-song-se-thay-doi-khi-ban-ngung-cho-doi.html","title":{"rendered":"Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi b\u1ea1n ng\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ngay khi t\u00f4i ng\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf t\u00f4i, \u1edf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u1edf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi \u2013 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y \u2013 khi t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c t\u00f4i, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi \u00fd ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb “s\u1ed1ng” m\u00f4 t\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng hy v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u00ecnh nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i v\u1eeba m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, v\u00f4 t\u01b0 l\u1ef1, ch\u1eb3ng mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i v\u1eeba m\u1edbi “ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi” v\u1eady.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\u0110\u1eebng
\u0110\u1eebng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i ch\u1edd cho kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u2013 th\u1ee9 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 to l\u1edbn n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

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T\u00f4i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c: l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m hay \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i th\u1ee9 \u1edf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi: S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a anh theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i g\u00ec \u1edf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng (t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng) khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u00e0y mai m\u1ecdi r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb x\u00f3a nh\u00f2a v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, t\u00f4i h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng “m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 n\u00ean di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o” v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi “l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o”: l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3… V\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi nguy c\u01a1 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi sai l\u1ea7m. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u00f4i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 to l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 n\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi “l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o” \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng” \u00e1m \u1ea3nh t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khi t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khi t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

\"\u0110\u1eebng
\u0110\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, h\u00e3y n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o<\/span><\/p>\n

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Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra theo c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u2013 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 mong ch\u1edd s\u1ef1 y\u00ean b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 thanh th\u1ea3n cho t\u1edbi khi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 y\u00ean b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 thanh th\u1ea3n n\u1eb1m \u1edf b\u00ean trong ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra khi t\u00f4i ng\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i?<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n khi ch\u00fang ta ng\u1eebng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, ng\u1eebng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, ng\u1eebng mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 h\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhanh, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn lao m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i “Big idea”, “Big Event”… \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u01b0ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng nhanh hay s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eadm, hay b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng? \u0110\u1eebng nghe qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n, b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 “v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng” c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian th\u00ec c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “nhanh” nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1eafng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 nghe tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eadm?<\/p>\n

\"\u0110\u1eebng
S\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, cho nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u00edt h\u01a1n<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y, t\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mong \u0111\u1ee3i hay lo s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ed1i \u0111a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n th\u00f4i v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t quy lu\u1eadt, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 mang \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ngay khi t\u00f4i ng\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf t\u00f4i, \u1edf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u1edf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40292"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40292"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40292\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}