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Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ecb phi, oan tr\u00e1i, gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u1ee7a… M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau b\u00e0i b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i gi\u1eadt g\u00e2n \u1ea5y m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n theo v\u00f2ng xo\u00e1y. Ch\u00fang ta coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0n t\u00e1n, tranh lu\u1eadn, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed to ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi nhau ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta b\u00e0n t\u00e1n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 quen v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t trong khi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd qua v\u00e0i ngu\u1ed3n th\u00f4ng tin ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong suy ngh\u0129, lo \u00e2u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 xung quanh \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y qua \u0111i, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch qu\u00ean, c\u00e1ch tha th\u1ee9, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch “l\u00e0m ng\u01a1” v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n \u1ea5y c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

\"S\u1ed1ng<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch qu\u00ean?<\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i, t\u00f4i \u0111i th\u0103m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng b\u1ecb vu c\u00e1o h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i. L\u00fac \u0103n c\u01a1m, anh nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i cho anh bi\u1ebft ai \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i anh.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng anh b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nghe. Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, anh n\u00f3i “Bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i th\u00ec sao ch\u1ee9? Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i qu\u00ean \u0111i. B\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ecf qua cho h\u1ecd, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ai n\u1eefa. M\u00ecnh an to\u00e0n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t may m\u1eafn”.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u00e0ng k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng<\/h3>\n

Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, tuy th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00f9ng ch\u00e1y. C\u00e0ng ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. B\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n x\u00e9t n\u00e1t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ef1 gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Quy lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn<\/h3>\n

Theo Jack Canfield<\/strong> (T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam ch\u00e2m \u2013 B\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a lu\u1eadt h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn<\/strong>): “Lu\u1eadt h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng nh\u1ea5t trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ecdng l\u1ef1c, n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n ph\u00e1t huy t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ngay ch\u00ednh l\u00fac n\u00e0y, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111ang v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n”.<\/em> \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n h\u01b0\u1edbng ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 d\u1ed3n c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thu h\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t b\u1ebf t\u1eafc.<\/p>\n

\"S\u1ed1ng<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n vui v\u1ebb, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3m \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch qu\u00ean, b\u1edfi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eb7t l\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u1ecf xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac.<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch qu\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. H\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 m\u00e3i b\u1ecb d\u00e0y v\u00f2 b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hay y\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i ra ngo\u00e0i v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

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Trong kinh Ph\u1eadt c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n

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Ti\u1ec3u h\u00f2a th\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 l\u00e3o h\u00f2a th\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f9ng \u0111i h\u00f3a duy\u00ean, ti\u1ec3u h\u00f2a th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed9 cung k\u00ednh, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u00ecn theo s\u01b0 ph\u1ee5. Khi t\u1edbi b\u1edd s\u00f4ng, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i mu\u1ed1n qua s\u00f4ng, l\u00e3o h\u00f2a th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f5ng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i qua s\u00f4ng, c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u1ea3m \u01a1n r\u1ed3i b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i, ti\u1ec3u h\u00f2a th\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ee9 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc: “S\u01b0 ph\u1ee5 sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i qua s\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf?”. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1eadu ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m h\u1ecfi, c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf \u0111i m\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 20 d\u1eb7m, c\u1eadu ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0nh h\u1ecfi s\u01b0 ph\u1ee5: “Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia, sao th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i qua s\u00f4ng?” S\u01b0 ph\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec1m \u0111\u1ea1m n\u00f3i: “Ta c\u00f5ng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 qua s\u00f4ng xong th\u00ec b\u1ecf c\u00f4 \u1ea5y xu\u1ed1ng, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u01a1i th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f5ng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u1ea5y 20 d\u1eb7m r\u1ed3i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a b\u1ecf xu\u1ed1ng.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfp theo khi ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn. Ch\u1eb3ng ai bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc hay d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ea3. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u di chuy\u1ec3n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u phong c\u1ea3nh, c\u00f3 l\u00fac \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u1ed1i t\u0103m, thi tho\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e8o d\u1ed1c, g\u1eadp gh\u1ec1nh… khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111em t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1edb h\u1ebft trong l\u00f2ng th\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng ch\u1ee9a th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1. Th\u1eadt hi\u1ebfm c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o nh\u1edb h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u1ea1o h\u00f3a \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e9o s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng qu\u00ean \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

\"S\u1ed1ng<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i c\u00e0ng phong ph\u00fa, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e0ng “tr\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eddi” th\u00ec \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 qu\u00ean \u0111i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh trang g\u1ecdn nh\u1eb9 h\u01a1n tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 qua ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c h\u00e3y kh\u1eafc c\u1ed1t ghi t\u00e2m nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eddi, s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ebft th\u1ea3y.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n tha th\u1ee9 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

Theo di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 Brian Tracy<\/strong>, c\u00f3 4 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tha th\u1ee9 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/strong> n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/strong>, cho d\u00f9 h\u1ecd c\u00f2n \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ch\u00fang ta hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, m\u1ed7i sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i, d\u00f9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta. Thay v\u00ec ca th\u00e1n, tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t. Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u01b0\u1edbt web \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc hay xem nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u00edch, b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n…. n\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ngh\u00e8o hay v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do ai c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

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\"S\u1ed1ng<\/p>\n

Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trong \u0111\u1ea7u suy ngh\u0129 gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i hay c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u00e0 n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 \u00e2n h\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng tha th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 (khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3) th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u00e3i m\u00e3i v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. T\u1ec7 h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1edfi ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean n\u00ean h\u00e3y r\u1ed9ng l\u00f2ng tha th\u1ee9. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong>. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c khi c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 x\u01b0a n\u1eefa c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00eam t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7? Li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 l\u1eabn nhau c\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sung s\u01b0\u1edbng? N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng, h\u00e3y l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb b\u1ecf v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong>, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh ch\u1ed7 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eefng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n. Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c kinh doanh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai \u0111i n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

\"S\u1ed1ng<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y tha th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ea1i d\u1ed9t, thi\u1ebfu suy ngh\u0129. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n lao qu\u00e1 nhanh v\u00e0o th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay b\u1ea1n \u0111i qu\u00e1 ch\u1eadm khi\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1eebng d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 ch\u1eadm, thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 thua k\u00e9m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u201cXu\u00e2n c\u00f3 hoa b\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p, thu c\u00f3 tr\u0103ng. H\u1ea1 c\u00f3 gi\u00f3 m\u00e1t, \u0111\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tuy\u1ebft. Trong l\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i phi\u1ec1n lo m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u00f9a \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n gian. Nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb, qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i n\u00ean qu\u00ean, s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf, trong l\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eafc th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd th\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ecb phi, oan tr\u00e1i, gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u1ee7a… M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau b\u00e0i b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i gi\u1eadt g\u00e2n \u1ea5y m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n theo v\u00f2ng xo\u00e1y. Ch\u00fang ta coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0n t\u00e1n, tranh lu\u1eadn, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed to ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi nhau ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta b\u00e0n t\u00e1n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 quen v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t trong khi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd qua v\u00e0i ngu\u1ed3n th\u00f4ng tin ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong suy ngh\u0129, lo \u00e2u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 xung quanh \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y qua \u0111i, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch qu\u00ean, c\u00e1ch tha th\u1ee9, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch “l\u00e0m ng\u01a1” v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n \u1ea5y c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40302"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40302"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40302\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40302"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40302"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40302"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}