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T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u “m\u1ea5t ph\u00ed”. Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec l\u00e0 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng ch\u00fang hay b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t r\u1ee7i ro, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, thua l\u1ed7, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t doanh nh\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n

D\u1eabu v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng qua ng\u00e0y m\u01b0a s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y n\u1eafng, qua n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui, qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3, qua th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c vui s\u01b0\u1edbng<\/strong> v\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1c quan, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n 10 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/strong> v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu chinh ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang, d\u00e1m ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u.<\/p>\n

1. Qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed th\u1eddi gian<\/h2>\n
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N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi (Emilie Barnes).<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed th\u1eddi gian hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1ea5t b\u1edfi c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng. “\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3, m\u00e0 kh\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m d\u00e0i ngo\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 l\u00ean l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh k\u0129 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng sao cho t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh” (Alina Grzegorzewska).<\/em><\/p>\n


<\/em>Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1eb3ng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ai c\u1ea3<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ebd r\u1ea5t l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1edd t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n deadline \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ng\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i do t\u00ednh ch\u00e2y \u00ec v\u00e0 “\u0111\u1ed9 tr\u1ec5” qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1eeb l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u00e3y ph\u00e2n chia th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang ta mong mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Do v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

2. \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/h2>\n
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B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t, s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m hay \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec h\u01a1n ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb th\u1ea7n kinh (Kamia Taylor).<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean.. th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 xung quanh; t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ea1o \u0111\u00f2n b\u1ea9y \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1ea5c thang th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc, h\u00e3y m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh, quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, “cho” nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec h\u1ecd v\u1eabn coi k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng li\u00ean nh\u00e2n (Interpersonal Skill<\/strong>) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu n\u00f3, h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng” \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

3. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7<\/h2>\n
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Gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t (\u0110\u1ea1t Lai L\u1ea1t Ma).<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Theo nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, vi\u1ec7c tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t l\u1ecbch ng\u1ee7 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 \u0111i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng ngon hay m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb xu\u1ed1ng d\u1ed1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc.<\/p>\n

Ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u1ea5c v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 s\u00e2u s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng kh\u1ecfe h\u01a1n<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ee7, ng\u1ee7 s\u00e2u v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh d\u1eady v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi h\u1ee9ng kh\u1edfi h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f2n lan truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng “s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh” cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

4. T\u1ef1 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h2>\n
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\u0110\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh trong khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n (Shobhit Singhal).<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Theo Betsy Myers<\/strong> – gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a Trung t\u00e2m Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00e0 Doanh nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Bentley, trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. N\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 duy tr\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n “\u0103n m\u00f2n” s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y coi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/span><\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i b\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f9a, kh\u00edch b\u00e1c hay ch\u1ecdc ngo\u00e1y c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn gi\u1eef trong l\u00f2ng th\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

5. Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/h2>\n
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N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 (Benjamin Franklin).<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 l\u1edbn hay \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ecf nhoi, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 v\u1eefng tin v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng g\u00f3p \u00fd, l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean hay chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n<\/span><\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng trong s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh, c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi linh ho\u1ea1t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c thay \u0111\u1ed5i xung quanh. Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lung lay \u00fd ch\u00ed khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u00e8m pha hay thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

6. T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1<\/h2>\n
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Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (Ronald Reagan)<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Nh\u01b0 Louise Christy<\/strong> vi\u1ebft “C\u00f3 nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. R\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. V\u1ec1 sau, t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eef v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y tai h\u1ecda kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp v\u00ec \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1”.<\/em><\/p>\n


<\/em>\u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i c\u1ea7u xin s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1<\/span><\/p>\n

Theo m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Kinh doanh Harvard, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i k\u00e9m \u0111i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, do v\u1eady kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c s\u1ebd cao h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m l\u00fd ng\u1ea1i “xin” s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n v\u00ec lo s\u1ee3 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

7. Bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/h2>\n
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B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9 \u0111i loanh quanh than v\u00e3n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng (Roshna Nazir).<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Trong r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p gi\u1eef y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho b\u1ea1n. “Khi gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n, lo l\u1eafng hay b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta b\u1eadt ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u1edf trong \u0111\u1ea7u”<\/em> (Anwesa Jana). V\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00f3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea5t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd chinh ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n g\u1ea5p nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

8. L\u1eafng nghe<\/h2>\n
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H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng l\u1eafng nghe ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi (Stephen Covey).<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng, h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe.<\/p>\n

Nicole Lipkin, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n What Keeps Leaders Up At Night<\/strong> (T\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eef c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 l\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00eam) \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n v\u1edbi t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Business Insider<\/strong> r\u1eb1ng: “T\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p do c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 tin nh\u1eafn c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00fa \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i. \u00dd t\u00f4i l\u00e0, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 n\u1ed5 tung”.<\/em><\/p>\n


<\/em>L\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t m\u1eb9o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0 Lipkin n\u00f3i, “M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n khi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 chung \u00fd ki\u1ebfn”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u tranh gi\u00e0nh nhau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i. Nh\u00ecn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec m\u1ed9t “\u0111\u1ed1ng l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n” c\u1ea3. N\u00f3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed”. Do v\u1eady, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3n b\u00e1c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

9. Ch\u00fa t\u00e2m v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n
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C\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 (Aarushi Ruddra).<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00edch, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c. “B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n n\u00f3i ra thi\u1ec3n \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay th\u1eb3ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3”.<\/em><\/p>\n


<\/em>H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 tin m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh 100% t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00fac l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hay v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c “lang thang” \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin gi\u1eadt g\u00e2n t\u1eeb c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p th\u00edch “bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n”? C\u00e1 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu t\u1eadp trung cao \u0111\u1ed9 trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng l\u00ean r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u1ee3t xa mong \u0111\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n

10. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n
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T\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh (Buddha)<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Theo Mark Givert, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o d\u1eabn d\u1eaft suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. “Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u1edf ch\u1ed7, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ra. Tuy nhi\u00ean, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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<\/em>H\u00e3y l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n trong m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, m\u1ee3i n\u01a1i, ngay c\u1ea3 trong h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0o khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 hay s\u1ed1ng trong “n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh” c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eaft gi\u00e1 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

10 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec kh\u00f3 n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. N\u1ebfu d\u1ec5 th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ch\u00fang kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec h\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng: Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed c\u1ea3!<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u “m\u1ea5t ph\u00ed”. Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec l\u00e0 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng ch\u00fang hay b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t r\u1ee7i ro, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, thua l\u1ed7, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t doanh nh\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40317"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40317"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40317\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":69663,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40317\/revisions\/69663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}