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Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 v\u00e0 lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n trong m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra th\u1eadt ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o th\u00e1o g\u1ee1, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 “t\u00edch c\u1ef1c” bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t h\u1eb3n trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ef1c ra, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 “\u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a” nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111ang d\u1edf dang m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, h\u00edt th\u1edf v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129<\/strong>. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1edb r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n

18<\/strong> d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u<\/strong> sau \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p<\/strong> m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 v\u00e0 xem th\u1eed b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111ang r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p l\u00ean v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u1eafm<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n<\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2y \u00ec, tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u1eadt r\u1ed1i r\u1eafm, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p: C\u00e1c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y deadline, t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u x\u1ebfp th\u00e0nh t\u1eebng ch\u1ed3ng, danh s\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c k\u00e9o d\u00e0i trong nhi\u1ec1u trang v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh m\u00e1y t\u00ednh tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp ghi ch\u00fa….. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m t\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 n\u00ean ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00fang th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y ch\u1ed1c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

2. Lo l\u1eafng<\/h2>\n

“Worry is the mother of a complicated life”<\/em> – Lo l\u1eafng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p<\/strong>. C\u00e0ng lo l\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ecf, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec th\u00f3i quen “b\u00e9 x\u00e9 ra to” n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, thay v\u00ec d\u00e0nh n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 lo l\u1eafng th\u00ec h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i<\/h2>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ea3”, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ea3 quan b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00ean h\u00e3y ch\u1edd l\u00fac t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 n\u00e0y c\u00f2n xa v\u1eddi qu\u00e1 n\u00ean h\u00e3y ch\u1edd m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian n\u1eefa hay d\u1ef1 \u00e1n n\u00e0y qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i l\u00e0m…. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ee3i, \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee3i trong khi \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00fang. Ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng hay kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i c\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i trong khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft n\u00f3 ngay th\u00ec l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i n\u1eefa khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span><\/p>\n

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4. N\u00f3i c\u00f3 v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n “say yes” v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7: b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 cam k\u1ebft r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 nhu nh\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n n\u00f3i KH\u00d4NG n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o l\u00e0m v\u1eeba \u00fd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

Nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u01a1i kh\u00f3 tin nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00edch n\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \/ gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, y\u00eau \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ngh\u0129, t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong> \u0110\u1eebng s\u1ee3 \u0111i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111i v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng ai s\u1ed1ng thay b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – h\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 lan t\u1ecfa<\/span><\/p>\n

6. \u00d4m \u0111\u1ed3m nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 th\u1ea5p<\/h2>\n

N\u00f3i r\u00f5 ra ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5p. “\u0110a nhi\u1ec7m” s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i \u01b0u h\u00f3a t\u1eebng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00ec h\u00e3y ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

7. Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t thay v\u00ec k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i<\/h2>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra xung quanh b\u1ea1n. Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. K\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t h\u1ecd. <\/strong>Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u, chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00fang. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, n\u1ebfu li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u00e1p l\u1ef1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110\u1eebng mong \u0111\u1ee3i qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn m\u00e0 h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

8. “Lu\u00f4n nh\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng con chim l\u1ea1i trong khi ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bay”<\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0i n\u0103m v\u00e0 cho \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, cho d\u00f9 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t hay t\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed3i th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. H\u00e3y th\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eebng gi\u1eef b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec qu\u00e1 ch\u1eb7t.<\/strong> N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed7i khi \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 trao cho b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u0169 b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh ch\u1ed7 cho nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. Nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00f3i ra quan \u0111i\u1ec3m hay “th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n” lu\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf. H\u00e3y ng\u1eebng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/strong> N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y r\u1eddi xa thay v\u00ec \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 sai l\u1ec7ch (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3) v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

10. Ti\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc, sau \u0111\u00f3… l\u00f9i hai b\u01b0\u1edbc<\/h2>\n

Ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 do d\u1ef1. B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c hay d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 tr\u00e1i tim h\u01a1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3.<\/strong> H\u00e3y ng\u1ea9ng cao \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 “\u00e2m thanh” c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u1ea5n \u00e1t b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

11. Ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n<\/h2>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng khi l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 l\u1ee3i \u00edch \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec c\u1ea3. Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ti\u1ebfp theo, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1edbi, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n (cho nh\u1eefng ai v\u1eeba th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \/ cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3) hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c – ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1ecf qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng vui \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. H\u00e3y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n


<\/strong>H\u00e3y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u00f3a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/p>\n

12. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u01b0u ti\u00ean<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eabn x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n \u0111i du l\u1ecbch, b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7 tr\u01b0a hay b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3. Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tin v\u00e0 n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft l\u00fac n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh n\u00ean n\u00f3i c\u00f3 v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m. Khi b\u1ea1n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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13. So s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

Ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng “Don’t compare your movie to someone else’s script”<\/em> (T\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: \u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ed9 phim c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c). Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 1 trong t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 20 trong t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3. <\/strong>So s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n<\/span><\/p>\n

14. Thi\u1ebfu ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/h2>\n

Thi\u1ebfu ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi tan v\u1ee1 v\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn tin v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e3y ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 trong suy ngh\u0129, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n

15. Kh\u00f4ng tha th\u1ee9<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 hay c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f9i d\u1eadp tr\u00e1i tim v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ec7c li\u00ean t\u1ee5c gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf hay gi\u1eadn d\u1eef s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u1ef1 do l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tha th\u1ee9 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n


<\/strong>M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a n\u00f3<\/span><\/p>\n

16. \u00cdch k\u1ef7<\/h2>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a “v\u0169 tr\u1ee5” m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00edch, th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ra bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n, n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111i, nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n b\u1ea1n \u0103n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa… t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00eam b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai kh\u00e1c. Qu\u00e1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u1edf xung quanh n\u00ean h\u00e3y thay \u0111\u1ed5i ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n. \u0110\u1eebng t\u1ef1 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn.<\/strong> “Give – Serve \u2013 Love”<\/em> – ” Cho \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng”.<\/em><\/p>\n

17. Kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/h2>\n

Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i hay h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. Nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n

Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00f3, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00f3 v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft n\u00f3. Nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1edd h\u1eefng.<\/strong><\/p>\n


<\/strong>H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi l\u1eafm<\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi \u1edf c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i g\u00ecn gi\u1eef.<\/p>\n

18. Tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh<\/h2>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng ai th\u00edch m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, xung \u0111\u1ed9t. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n di\u1ec5n ra theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ngay l\u1eadp t\u00fac r\u00fat kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. C\u00e0ng tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh, s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1edbn h\u01a1n n\u00ean t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 vui v\u1ebb, y\u00ean b\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd \u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Do v\u1eady, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tham gia v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u, n\u00eau \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 t\u00edch l\u0169y kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o d\u00e1m \u0111i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00fang.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 v\u00e0 lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n trong m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra th\u1eadt ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o th\u00e1o g\u1ee1, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 “t\u00edch c\u1ef1c” bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t h\u1eb3n trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ef1c ra, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 “\u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a” nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40325"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40325"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40325\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":69683,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40325\/revisions\/69683"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40325"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40325"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40325"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}