{"id":40341,"date":"2023-12-10T02:01:17","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T02:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nguoi-giau-luon-tranh-tiep-xuc-voi-kieu-nguoi-nao.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T06:59:57","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T06:59:57","slug":"nguoi-giau-luon-tranh-tiep-xuc-voi-kieu-nguoi-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nguoi-giau-luon-tranh-tiep-xuc-voi-kieu-nguoi-nao.html","title":{"rendered":"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u lu\u00f4n tr\u00e1nh ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"content-detail textview\">\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em\">Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n giao du th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn t\u1edbi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Sau khi nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u trong 5 n\u0103m, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 <strong>Thomas C. Corley<\/strong> ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1: <strong>\u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-771\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/04\/14\/nguoi-giau-tich-cuc-so-sanh.jpg\" width=\"474\" height=\"356\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Corley vi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng &#8220;<em><strong>Change Your Habits, Change Your Life<\/strong><\/em>&#8221; (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch l\u00e0 <em>Thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen, thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/em>&#8220;) r\u1eb1ng: &#8220;<em>Nh\u1eefng tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa l\u00e0m n\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1eeb b\u00e0n tay tr\u1eafng lu\u00f4n r\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd giao thi\u1ec7p. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e3n quan t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00f3i chung<\/em>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>60% nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a Corley c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen giao thi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong>. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, \u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng &#8220;<em>h\u1ecd c\u0169ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/em>&#8220;. T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c thay th\u1ebf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u1edfi ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 &#8220;logo \u0111\u00f3ng d\u1ea5u&#8221; c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u m\u00e0 \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. V\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta &#8220;m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng&#8221; l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" title=\"holder-771\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/04\/14\/nguoi-giau-tich-cuc-tieu-cuc.jpg\" width=\"553\" height=\"369\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Corley n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: &#8220;<em>Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i ch\u1ec9 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/em>&#8220;. \u00d4ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd l\u00e0m &#8220;tr\u1eadt b\u00e1nh&#8221; th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, hay \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 xung quanh s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng (v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh) c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. G\u1ea7n 1 th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o <strong>Napoleon Hill<\/strong> c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0a ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 sau khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1edbi tr\u00ean 500 tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u t\u1eeb b\u00e0n tay tr\u1eafng. \u00d4ng vi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y &#8220;<strong>Think and Grow Rich<\/strong>&#8221; (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch l\u00e0 <em>Ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u<\/em>&#8220;) c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u0103m 1937 r\u1eb1ng: &#8220;<em>Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd giao thi\u1ec7p, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hy v\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd<\/em>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy\" style=\"border: 1px solid #000\" title=\"holder-771\" src=\"https:\/\/st.Masterskills.com\/photos\/image\/2016\/04\/14\/nguoi-giau-tich-cuc-tich-cuc.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"428\" \/><\/p>\n<p>K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn sau c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt l\u1edbn tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng nhau s\u1ebd thu h\u00fat nhau, h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n<div id=\"articleads2\" class=\"adbox in-article adsense\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><em><strong>T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Kathleen Elkins<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"line-height:1.5em\">Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n giao du th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn t\u1edbi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Sau khi nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u trong 5 n\u0103m, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 <strong>Thomas C. Corley<\/strong> ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1: <strong>\u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40341"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40341"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40341\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40341"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40341"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40341"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}