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D\u00f9 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o, vi\u1ec7c n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kinh doanh, b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng hay quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang th\u00ec k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0y m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng s\u1ebd k\u00e9o theo v\u00f4 v\u00e0n nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c nhau, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i 12 th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

1. Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i “ch\u00fang ta” th\u00ec li\u00ean t\u1ee5c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng “t\u00f4i”<\/h2>\n

Nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen “Theo t\u00f4i…”, “T\u00f4i ngh\u0129….”, “T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n…”, “T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n…”, “Anh\/ch\u1ecb sai ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n….”, “T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u00ean”.<\/em>.. khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00f3m. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u1eb3ng ai th\u00edch su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, do v\u1eady m\u00e0 “c\u00e1i t\u00f4i” lu\u00f4n tr\u1ed7i d\u1eady khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00f3m v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong \u0111\u00f3. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh h\u00f9ng hay n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i ai c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

2. Nh\u00ecn sang m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n<\/h2>\n

Bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p… m\u00e0 m\u1eaft ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i hay m\u00e1y t\u00ednh? D\u00f9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb ai \u0111\u00f3 “\u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed” ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i: c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng ai \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd<\/strong>. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y: b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng ra cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c xem \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 trong khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn. C\u1eed ch\u1ec9 thi\u1ebfu th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u0169ng g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

Quay l\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea5m k\u1ef5 nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng khuy\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y c\u00f2n kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u1eefa”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng khi n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua \u00e1nh m\u1eaft. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

3. Ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

Ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, do \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat hay \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3ng l\u00f2ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0a ra quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 qu\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u1ebfp theo c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i khi \u0111ang c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, nam gi\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh uy quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do g\u00ec th\u00ec h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf “T\u00f4i quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n”.<\/em> \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng x\u1ea5u c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n

4. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/h2>\n

Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh \u0111\u1ebfn 90% \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i. B\u1ea1n khua ch\u00e2n m\u00faa tay qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, b\u1ea1n l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u1eaft ch\u00e9o ch\u00e2n, b\u1ecbt tai, nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft hay \u0111\u1ea3o m\u1eaft li\u00ean t\u1ee5c… T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

Khoanh tay ho\u1eb7c khoanh ch\u00e2n<\/strong> \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi hay c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u1ecd n\u00ean d\u1eebng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u0103n m\u1eb7t<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, khi khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1eafn hay c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng vui v\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u lia l\u1ecba<\/strong> m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 quan tr\u1ecdng, tuy nhi\u00ean n\u1ebfu trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n ho\u1eb7c giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, vi\u1ec7c g\u1eadt \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng nghi ng\u1edd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

V\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ee9t t\u00f3c<\/strong> trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang lo l\u1eafng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3? Li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang d\u1edf dang? Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec m\u1ed9t khi \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ra ngo\u00e0i, tr\u1eeb khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Th\u00f5ng vai<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe \u00f4ng”<\/em> nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u00f5ng vai th\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft tay qu\u00e1 nhanh, m\u1ea1nh ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 y\u1ebfu<\/strong> c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay e d\u00e8 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

Khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9ng qu\u00e1 g\u1ea7n h\u1ecd<\/strong>. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 c\u00f2n nghi ng\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ed3 g\u00ec ch\u0103ng?<\/p>\n

5. Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00e2ng qu\u01a1<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1eb3ng ch\u00fa \u00fd nghe g\u00ec c\u1ea3? \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 “Mmmmm hmmmm…” ho\u1eb7c “v\u00e2ng…” v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u00f3i th\u00eam m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 “V\u00e2ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u1ed9n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lo l\u1eafng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 nghe ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng?”. H\u00e3y l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i d\u00e0i ra ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nghe h\u1ecd n\u00f3i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

6. T\u1ecf ra l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi “bi\u1ebft tu\u1ed1t”<\/h2>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n tr\u1ee3n tr\u00f2n m\u1eaft v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng “Cho d\u00f9 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a nghe h\u1ebft c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1eeba hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp”<\/em>. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb, h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ecf ra m\u00ecnh “tr\u00ean th\u00f4ng thi\u00ean, d\u01b0\u1edbi t\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ecba l\u00fd”.<\/em><\/p>\n

7. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac chi ph\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 “b\u00f9ng ch\u00e1y” v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec c\u00e1i t\u00f4i qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef th\u00f4 k\u1ec7ch v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e0, g\u00e2y ph\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

8. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00fd mu\u1ed1n l\u1eafng nghe<\/h2>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

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“H\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3”<\/em> hay “V\u1eady b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y?”<\/em> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1 hay \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n nghe ti\u1ebfp c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

9. Li\u00ean t\u1ee5c k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, chuy\u1ec7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u0111ang nghe hay h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i? \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

10. T\u1eadp trung “soi” t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd n\u00f3i<\/h2>\n

Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang chia s\u1ebb hay tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng “\u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ecb” t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Hi\u1ec3u t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u00e8o l\u00e1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

11. Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb “nh\u01b0ng”<\/h2>\n

Nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o v\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u00e0y “T\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng”; “\u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u1ed3i nh\u01b0ng……”;<\/em> “V\u00e2ng, \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3”<\/em>… Li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1?<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf t\u1eeb “nh\u01b0ng”, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

12. Kh\u00f4ng giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft<\/h2>\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u1edbp m\u1eaft hay \u0111\u1ea3o m\u1eaft theo h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb cho l\u00e0 \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e1nh giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3o ho\u1eb7c ch\u1edbp m\u1eaft li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00eam n\u1eefa l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn xu\u1ed1ng, tr\u1eebng m\u1eaft, ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ee3n tr\u00f2n m\u1eaft trong khi c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh x\u1ea5u trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

D\u00f9 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o, vi\u1ec7c n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kinh doanh, b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng hay quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang th\u00ec k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40347"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40347"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40347\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40347"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40347"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40347"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}