{"id":40664,"date":"2023-12-10T02:13:07","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T02:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/4-bi-quyet-de-song-sot-noi-cong-so-khoc-liet.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T06:08:37","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T06:08:37","slug":"4-bi-quyet-de-song-sot-noi-cong-so-khoc-liet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/4-bi-quyet-de-song-sot-noi-cong-so-khoc-liet.html","title":{"rendered":"4 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 “s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t” n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf kh\u1ed1c li\u1ec7t"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00f4ng s\u1edf lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ed1c li\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta, \u1edf chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u b\u1eb1ng v\u0169 kh\u00ed m\u00e0 h\u1ecd chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i… V\u1eady n\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cs\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t\u201d \u1edf m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eadm t\u1ec7, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm r\u00f5 4 b\u00ed k\u00edp sau.<\/p>\n

1. Lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3n c\u00f4ng<\/h2>\n

N\u1ebfu \u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 quan l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00ec v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e0, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 anh em th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n b\u1eadn t\u00e2m lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn, \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1 nhau \u0111\u1ec3 tranh gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb. Tuy nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 quan nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u1edf c\u00e1c m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n l\u00e0 c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1, l\u1eeba l\u1ecdc l\u1eabn nhau \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1eb7t. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 hi\u1ec1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng toan t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

Robert Sutton – Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Stanford v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cThe No Asshole Rule\u201d cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTrong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u2018Lord of the Flies\u2019, n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau r\u1ea5t t\u1ec7 b\u1ea1c, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1n trong m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5u tranh.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi theo nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p m\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. S\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m l\u00fd, b\u1edfi xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

2. Tr\u00e1nh tranh ch\u1ea5p b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/h2>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng s\u1edf nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng th\u1ea7n kinh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o s\u1edbm cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh, \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh kh\u00f3 th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p hay qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi v\u00e0o l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ee3 l\u00fd c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00f2 h\u1ecfi xem t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean khi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u201cgi\u1eadn c\u00e1 ch\u00e9m th\u1edbt.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

3. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean trong m\u00f4i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, ch\u1eb3ng ai mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201c\u0111\u1ed3ng minh\u201d th\u00e2n t\u00edn trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u201cgh\u00ea g\u1edbm\u201d \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201c\u0111\u1ed3ng minh\u201d trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u201c\u0110\u00f4i khi, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh\u201d \u2013 Sutton cho hay.<\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, h\u00e3y cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

4. \u0110\u1eebng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t<\/h2>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch r\u00fat lui c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb x\u1ea5u xa v\u00e0 b\u1ecb t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi quay l\u01b0ng.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u00f4ng s\u1edf lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ed1c li\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta, \u1edf chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u b\u1eb1ng v\u0169 kh\u00ed m\u00e0 h\u1ecd chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i… V\u1eady n\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cs\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t\u201d \u1edf […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40664"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40664"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40664\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40664"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40664"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40664"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}