{"id":40676,"date":"2023-12-10T02:13:37","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T02:13:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/6-meo-tam-ly-giup-ban-vuot-qua-cuoc-phong-van-xin-viec-mot-cach-de-dang.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T06:06:57","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T06:06:57","slug":"6-meo-tam-ly-giup-ban-vuot-qua-cuoc-phong-van-xin-viec-mot-cach-de-dang","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/6-meo-tam-ly-giup-ban-vuot-qua-cuoc-phong-van-xin-viec-mot-cach-de-dang.html","title":{"rendered":"6 m\u1eb9o t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a bao nhi\u00eau b\u1ea1n sinh vi\u00ean khi m\u1edbi ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea5y ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i “tr\u00e0y vi tr\u00f3c v\u1ea3y” \u0111i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00e1m \u1ea3nh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n sinh vi\u00ean, l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111i xin vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00f3ng ng\u00f3ng, r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng… kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i d\u00e1ng n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ee9ng ra sao, \u0103n n\u00f3i ki\u1ec3u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec3m trong m\u1eaft c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i Quara c\u00f3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng m\u1eb9o t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ghi \u0111i\u1ec3m trong m\u1eaft nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00ed k\u00edp hay \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng khi \u0111i xin vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

1. B\u00e0n tay ta l\u00e0m n\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/h2>\n

\"B\u00e0n<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, th\u00ec c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u0103ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay khi n\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u1ea1nh ng\u1eaft v\u00e0 tu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang r\u1ea5t lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t khi \u0111i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edbm \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1eb9n, t\u00ecm nh\u00e0 v\u1ec7 sinh v\u00e0 v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u1ea5m tay b\u1eb1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3ng ho\u1eb7c m\u00e1y s\u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua m\u1ed9t t\u00e1ch cafe n\u00f3ng v\u00e0 gi\u1eef n\u00f3 trong tay. Nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u01b0u \u00fd n\u1eefa l\u00e0 trong bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e2n tay kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb rung khua lung tung, l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

2. T\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/h2>\n

\"B\u00e0n<\/p>\n

Trong ph\u00f2ng ph\u00f2ng v\u1ea5n, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 b\u1eaft tr\u01b0\u1edbc phong th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n b\u1ea1n v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u1eed \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u00f4ng gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, nh\u1ecbp th\u1edf v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 l\u1ed9 li\u1ec5u, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, qua \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ni\u1ec1m tin n\u01a1i h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean h\u00e3y l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0m g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cH\u1ecd g\u00e3i m\u0169i b\u1eb1ng tay tr\u00e1i, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t b\u1eb1ng tay ph\u1ea3i. H\u1ecd ng\u1ed3i ch\u00e9o ch\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n ch\u00e9o ch\u00e2n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.”<\/p>\n

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Sau khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin v\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

3. Th\u1edf s\u00e2u, ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i, \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n<\/h2>\n

\"B\u00e0n<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ai trong ch\u00fang ta khi \u0111i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p, mu\u1ed1n cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n nhanh nhanh k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n nhanh k\u1ebft th\u00fac th\u00ec t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nhanh g\u1ea5p, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1eaft b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3 nh\u1eb1n th\u00ec h\u00e3y gi\u00e0nh ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u01b0ng \u00fd nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng cao s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin \u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

4. T\u1ef1 tin, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ef1 tin qu\u00e1<\/h2>\n

\"B\u00e0n<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tin khi tim \u0111\u1eadp nhanh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi run b\u1ea7n b\u1eadt? Th\u1ef1c ra ai trong ch\u00fang ta khi \u0111i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u0169ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u1ebft th\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch che gi\u1ea5u nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1eeb ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, h\u00e3y c\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, duy tr\u00ec giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh rung ch\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

T\u1ef1 tin l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 tin th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n thu\u00ea m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5.<\/p>\n

5. Bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i khi c\u1ea7n<\/h2>\n

Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u1ed1t m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n, khi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3i, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

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6. H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

\"B\u00e0n<\/p>\n

Nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd quan s\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i hay kh\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 hay ho mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u00f5ng d\u1ea1c. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 v\u00ec sao h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a bao nhi\u00eau b\u1ea1n sinh vi\u00ean khi m\u1edbi ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea5y ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i “tr\u00e0y vi tr\u00f3c v\u1ea3y” \u0111i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c. Ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40676"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40676"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40676\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}