{"id":40815,"date":"2023-12-10T02:18:21","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T02:18:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/12-cum-tu-tuyet-doi-khong-nen-noi-khi-o-cong-ty.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T05:46:00","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T05:46:00","slug":"12-cum-tu-tuyet-doi-khong-nen-noi-khi-o-cong-ty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/12-cum-tu-tuyet-doi-khong-nen-noi-khi-o-cong-ty.html","title":{"rendered":"12 c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i khi \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00f4ng ty n\u00e0o, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111ang h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00f3m<\/strong> (teamwork)<\/em>. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, quy l\u1ec7 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p (professional etiquette<\/em>) c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m. Mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho team c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh, \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft th\u00ec ngo\u00e0i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00f3m chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c phong v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean trang Bright Side lu\u00f4n quan s\u00e1t k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tham kh\u1ea3o nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y – nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p<\/strong> v\u00e0 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i<\/strong>, chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p<\/strong> h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

1. “\u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/strong>: B\u1edfi khi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0ng ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng: “\u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i<\/em>“, r\u1ed3i ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch ph\u1edbt l\u1edd l\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may m\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i. B\u1edfi c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m x\u1ea5u \u0111i h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt \u00edch k\u1ef7, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft lo cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n teamwork.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “B\u1ea1n th\u1eed h\u1ecfi anh\/ch\u1ecb…xem”<\/em><\/p>\n

2. “Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0!”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady:<\/strong> H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ty c\u00f3 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0 duy hay ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nghe b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e2u n\u00e0y. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ng\u1ea1i thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 lo s\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi s\u1ebd gi\u00fap g\u00ec cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4ng ty lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi m\u1ebb h\u01a1n. V\u1eady n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea3ng tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e1o b\u1ea1o, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 linh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/strong> ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u00e9. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0: “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng?<\/em>“<\/p>\n

3. “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/strong>: C\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m hay b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n n\u00e0o cho kh\u1ea3 thi th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng lo, h\u00e3y tr\u1ea5n an b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng: “T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/em>” v\u00e0 th\u1eed l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa xem. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00edch cho b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 m\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ebf t\u1eafc<\/strong>, th\u1eed t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap nho nh\u1ecf, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ed9t g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n “khai th\u00f4ng tr\u00ed n\u00e3o<\/em>” th\u00ec sao? H\u00e3y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “T\u00f4i \u0111ang b\u1ebf t\u1eafc. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?<\/em>“<\/p>\n

4. “T\u00f4i s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady:<\/strong> T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean n\u00f3i c\u00e2u n\u00e0y, v\u00ec l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n ra \u00eam \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 \u00fd b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 tr\u1ea5n an \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i:<\/strong> “H\u00e3y nh\u1eafc t\u00f4i trong m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u1eefa nh\u00e9!<\/em>” s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00ean t\u00e2m h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

5. “\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady:<\/strong> Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ea3, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. B\u1edfi c\u00f3 l\u1ebd nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, thay v\u00ec b\u1ecf qua n\u00f3, h\u00e3y th\u1eed t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 xem sao, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i n\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng hay th\u00ec qu\u00e1 tuy\u1ec7t lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

H\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3<\/strong>i: “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2u. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t nh\u00e9!<\/em>“<\/p>\n

\u200b6. “B\u1ea1n sai r\u1ed3i!”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady:<\/strong> Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn hay n\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh vi ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0o c\u00e1c nghi th\u1ee9c v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p n\u1eefa. L\u1ea7n sau, thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 nh\u1edb l\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng th\u00f4i v\u00ec ch\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y<\/strong>: “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd l\u1eafm, v\u00ec…<\/em>“, \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb t\u1ed1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

\u200b7. “T\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0…”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/strong>: B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u00ec sao kh\u00f4ng, hi\u1ebfm khi ch\u00fang ta suy ngh\u0129 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i c\u00e2u “T\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i<\/em>” v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5t ng\u1ee7n, kh\u00f4ng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 do b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi, b\u1ea1n hay t\u00f4i v\u1eabn t\u1ef1 bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i khi m\u1eafc sai l\u00e0m, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch hay bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, <\/strong>b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc. L\u1ea7n sau, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng…<\/em>” nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

\u200b8. “T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n r\u1eb1ng…”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/strong>: B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn sai l\u1ea7m. V\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh hay t\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang h\u1ebft. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh sai s\u00f3t v\u00e0 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng th\u00eam v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng<\/strong>: “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng?<\/em>“<\/p>\n

\u200b9. “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/strong>: \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng cao v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n. Khi c\u00f2n \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u1eabn d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u00e0m h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u00e0 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1eeb n\u00f3 m\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea7n sau t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n?<\/em>” \u0110\u1eebng t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n

10. “B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 sai h\u1ebft r\u1ed3i”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00edch b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng r\u1ed3i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m v\u1eady v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1edfi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00fac b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng vui th\u00ec d\u1ec5, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t v\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng hay \u0111\u1ebfn \u00fd ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n:<\/strong> “\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n, l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi h\u00e3y th\u1eed…<\/em>“<\/p>\n

11. “C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i sai, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0…”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: <\/strong>C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ee3 n\u00f3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u00e1c b\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1eebng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y th\u1eed chia s\u1ebb \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n xem sao, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ebf n\u00e0y…<\/em>“<\/p>\n

12. “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian”<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/strong>: C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, trong khi \u0111\u00f3 deadline th\u00ec s\u1eafp \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1n n\u1ed9p, c\u00f2n b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u01b0u ti\u00ean? T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u01a1n kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 (mang t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i<\/em>) h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch.<\/p>\n

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Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh n\u00f3 v\u00e0o l\u00fac\/ v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng…<\/em>“\u200b<\/p>\n

13. Ba c\u00e1ch s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m<\/h2>\n

\"\u0110\u00f3<\/p>\n

Khi \u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eb1ng gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng n\u00f3i hay l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y th\u1eed xem 3 c\u00e1ch d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m nh\u00e9:<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n nay, ai trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i g\u1eb7p r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ph\u1ea3i giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m cho gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u trong m\u1eaft h\u1ecd n\u1eefa. Hy v\u1ecdng 12 c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i khi \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp th\u1eadt hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00f4ng ty n\u00e0o, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111ang h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00f3m<\/strong> (teamwork)<\/em>. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, quy l\u1ec7 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p (professional etiquette<\/em>) c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m. Mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho team c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh, \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft th\u00ec ngo\u00e0i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00f3m chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c phong v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40815"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40815"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40815\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40815"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40815"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40815"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}