{"id":41170,"date":"2023-12-10T02:32:29","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T02:32:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/neu-muon-thanh-cong-dung-bien-minh-thanh-mot-trong-5-kieu-nguoi-nay.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T04:53:31","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T04:53:31","slug":"neu-muon-thanh-cong-dung-bien-minh-thanh-mot-trong-5-kieu-nguoi-nay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/neu-muon-thanh-cong-dung-bien-minh-thanh-mot-trong-5-kieu-nguoi-nay.html","title":{"rendered":"N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eebng bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t trong 5 ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y"},"content":{"rendered":"
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X\u00e9t tr\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t th\u00ec kinh doanh l\u00e0 “m\u1ed9t v\u00f9ng l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n”<\/em>, kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf n\u00ean khi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i chuy\u00ean gia n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 5 ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng theo Stephanie Synclair \u2013 doanh nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n “Shut Up and Do the Work”.<\/em> Theo c\u00f4, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebfn \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

1. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb m\u1ed9ng m\u01a1 (The Dreamer)<\/h2>\n

Synclair vi\u1ebft: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng h\u00e3y khao kh\u00e1t nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa”<\/em>. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i h\u00e2m m\u1ed9, theo sau h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng… l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. “Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"M\u01a1<\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c… m\u01a1 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

2. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ch\u1ea7n ch\u1eeb (The Lurker)<\/h2>\n

“\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 v\u00e0 xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m”,<\/em> Synclair nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh. “H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1”.<\/em> H\u1ecd ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 “s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng” th\u00ec m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

\"M\u01a1<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd “ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng”. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1edd “th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p” \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. Thay v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y di chuy\u1ec3n, b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o l\u00e0m \u0111i. Nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf th\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

3. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ganh gh\u00e9t (The Hater)<\/h2>\n

“Th\u1ef1c ra, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd mang m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat ghen t\u1ef5 trong l\u00f2ng. T\u1eeb trong s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn d\u1eef khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"M\u01a1<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

L\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ef5 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ganh gh\u00e9t ai \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c: T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

4. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan (The Pessimist)<\/h2>\n

“\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u00f2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng r\u1ed3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"M\u01a1<\/p>\n

N\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb t\u00ea li\u1ec7t. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng: \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra? Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n

5. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t (The Judge)<\/h2>\n

Theo Synclair, “B\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t m\u00ecnh”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"M\u01a1<\/p>\n

K\u1ebb th\u00f9 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai v\u00e0 h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t khi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p ho\u1eb7c th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm c\u1ea3. “M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“Khi b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi sinh ra kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o 5 ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean. Do v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i”.<\/em><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i n\u00f3 v\u1edbi \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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