{"id":41364,"date":"2023-12-10T02:40:48","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T02:40:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/gat-dau-dung-cach-nghe-thuat-the-hien-ban-la-nguoi-tap-trung-trong-cac-buoi-hop.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T04:25:59","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T04:25:59","slug":"gat-dau-dung-cach-nghe-thuat-the-hien-ban-la-nguoi-tap-trung-trong-cac-buoi-hop","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/gat-dau-dung-cach-nghe-thuat-the-hien-ban-la-nguoi-tap-trung-trong-cac-buoi-hop.html","title":{"rendered":"G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch: Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eadp trung trong c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u0110\u00f4i khi, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng “ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt” g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u c\u0169ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu, t\u1eadp trung l\u1eafng nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebfp n\u00f3i ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp r\u1ea5t nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/strong><\/p>\n

G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u \u2013 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd, \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 nghe r\u00f5. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u00f9y t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ki\u1ec3u g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng o\u00e1i \u0103m, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u hay c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng<\/span>: G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 (Body Language) m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u00fd v\u1edbi \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd v\u00ec \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo th\u00f3i quen m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/em><\/p>\n

1. G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

Ki\u1ec3u g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0…. ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hy v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 khi g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u ra \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi!<\/p>\n

2. G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i, sau \u0111\u00f3 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u nhanh h\u01a1n<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ki\u1ec3u g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y khi mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u00fd nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

3. L\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u nhanh h\u01a1n<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

Ki\u1ec3u l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd nh\u1edb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, gi\u1edd th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n “gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd” m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng!<\/p>\n

4. Nghi\u00eang \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb b\u00ean n\u00e0y sang b\u00ean kia<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ki\u1ec3u g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, h\u00e0m \u00fd r\u1eb1ng “\u00e0, nghe \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ea5y”<\/em>, trong khi, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 “\u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t”<\/em> v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00e1c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

5. V\u1eeba g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eeba c\u00fai xu\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd ghi ch\u00e9p<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

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6. V\u1eeba g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eeba k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 tay<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t tay d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1eb1m, sau \u0111\u00f3 d\u00f9ng c\u1ea3 hay tay, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1eb1m th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n tr\u00ean c\u00e1c kh\u1edbp \u0111\u1ed1t ng\u00f3n tay. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n

7. G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u k\u00e8m theo m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng th\u1edf d\u00e0i<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi ki\u1ec3u g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i c\u00f3 (Say Yes) nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

8. G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ki\u1ec3u… bu\u1ed3n ng\u1ee7<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c khi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ki\u1ec3u g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i… d\u1eebng n\u00f3i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c!<\/p>\n

9. G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ki\u1ec3u n\u1eeda v\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

\"G\u1eadt<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c ra \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 “b\u1ea1n g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00e2u, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00fd l\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1eefa \u0111i”.<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tin kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung, kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 g\u00f3p m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o “danh s\u00e1ch \u0111en” g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “ch\u0103m s\u00f3c” \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ea5y. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ki\u1ec3u g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ai c\u0169ng tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

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\u0110\u00f4i khi, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng “ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt” g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u c\u0169ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu, t\u1eadp trung l\u1eafng nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebfp n\u00f3i ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp r\u1ea5t nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41364"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41364"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41364\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41364"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41364"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}