{"id":41498,"date":"2023-12-10T02:45:40","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T02:45:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/khao-sat-200-trieu-phu-tu-than-cho-thay-ho-deu-co-chung-6-thai-do-tich-cuc-nay.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T04:04:15","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T04:04:15","slug":"khao-sat-200-trieu-phu-tu-than-cho-thay-ho-deu-co-chung-6-thai-do-tich-cuc-nay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/khao-sat-200-trieu-phu-tu-than-cho-thay-ho-deu-co-chung-6-thai-do-tich-cuc-nay.html","title":{"rendered":"Kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t 200 tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n cho th\u1ea5y, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 chung 6 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Trong cu\u1ed1n The Millionaire Mystique<\/strong> (T\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: B\u00ed \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa<\/em>), tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n l\u1eadp nghi\u1ec7p ki\u00eam hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Jude Miller Burke<\/strong> vi\u1ebft “Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m chung r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n h\u1ecd c\u00f3. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sau khi nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n 200 tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n trong kho\u1ea3ng 3 n\u0103m, Burke \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra “t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9” chung nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u, trong \u0111\u00f3, 6 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u l\u1ea1c quan<\/h2>\n

Nh\u01b0 Burke v\u00e0 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia kh\u00e1c nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n l\u1eadp nghi\u1ec7m. Tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi n\u00f3, bi quan c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 sau c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1nh ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

\"Tri\u1ec7u<\/p>\n

“M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, “ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh n\u00f3”,<\/em> Burke gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch. “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng bi quan qu\u00e1 s\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c”.<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00e1c k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng khoa h\u1ecdc, c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u00edt c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

2. H\u1ecd \u0111am m\u00ea<\/h2>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u lu\u00f4n theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Burke v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh, “n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111am m\u00ea, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 th\u00fac m\u00ecnh b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi v\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn h\u01a1n khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111eo b\u00e1m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111am m\u00ea”<\/em>, Burke vi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

\"Tri\u1ec7u<\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u k\u00e9o d\u00e0i 5 n\u0103m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Thomas C.Corley<\/strong> c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1: “\u0110am m\u00ea khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb. \u0110am m\u00ea mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, sai s\u00f3t v\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. N\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed3ng t\u00edn khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n v\u00e0 c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ee1 b\u1ecf”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

3. H\u1ecd g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft<\/h2>\n

“Ngay c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y”<\/em>, Burke vi\u1ebft, “H\u1ecd l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Tri\u1ec7u<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n khao kh\u00e1t t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n

Theo Burke, “h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft s\u00e2u r\u1ed9ng trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, tham gia c\u00e1c h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi”.<\/em><\/p>\n

4. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

Nh\u1eefng tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn \u2013 ho\u1eb7c, n\u00f3i theo ki\u1ec3u ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n nay th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 “nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m” v\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 cao.<\/p>\n

\"Tri\u1ec7u<\/p>\n

“Nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd vui s\u01b0\u1edbng khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. Trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Khoa h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3: “Nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i”,<\/em> theo ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Travis Bradberry<\/strong>, \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch Emotional Intelligence 2.0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. H\u1ecd ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n<\/h2>\n

Theo nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Burke kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u00ec c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n lu\u00f4n “khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sau c\u00f9ng, c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 nh\u1ecf – ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i 5 ph\u00fat, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u th\u00edch h\u1ee3p hay m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m thi\u1ec7p c\u1ea3m \u01a1n vi\u1ebft tay – \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

\"Tri\u1ec7u<\/p>\n

6. H\u1ecd ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

C\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n lu\u00f4n duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c – ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng t\u1ecfa ra trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd. Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t khi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00f4ng theo k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd b\u1ecb khi\u00eau kh\u00edch.<\/p>\n

Burke nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh, h\u1ecd “r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u00fd. H\u1ecd l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i gi\u00e2y, h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khi\u00eau kh\u00edch, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec \u0111i n\u1eefa”.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trong cu\u1ed1n The Millionaire Mystique<\/strong> (T\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: B\u00ed \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa<\/em>), tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n l\u1eadp nghi\u1ec7p ki\u00eam hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Jude Miller Burke<\/strong> vi\u1ebft “Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m chung r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n h\u1ecd c\u00f3. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t”.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41498"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41498"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41498\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41498"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41498"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}