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C\u00e1c t\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng giao ti\u1ebfp chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00f4i khi r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 x\u1eed v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng may l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc x\u00e3 giao trong kinh doanh \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh “c\u01b0\u1eddi ra n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft”.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n The Essentials of Business Etiquette<\/strong> (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: Nh\u1eefng ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong kinh doanh<\/em>), t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Barbara Pachter<\/strong> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p trong nh\u1eefng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Business Insider<\/strong> \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c v\u00e0 l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng… B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u0103ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n

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Lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ee9ng khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3<\/h3>\n

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Theo Pachter, “T\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ee9ng gi\u00fap thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecf qua b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu \u0111ang m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i t\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 (c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd v\u00e0 t\u00ean) c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n

Trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kinh doanh, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u. N\u1ebfu t\u00ean qu\u00e1 d\u00e0i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3 ph\u00e1t \u00e2m, Pachter khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c r\u00fat ng\u1eafn n\u00f3. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n n\u00ean xem x\u00e9t vi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1t \u00e2m t\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean danh thi\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a n\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n b\u1eaft tay tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao h\u01a1n, ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n<\/h3>\n

Trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7, c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb cao h\u01a1n (kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh), b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1eaft tay tr\u01b0\u1edbc. “N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft tay ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c – th\u01b0\u1eddng do s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh – th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u1ea3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu. “\u1ede M\u1ef9, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1eaft tay l\u00e0 l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o kinh doanh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0 b\u1eaft tay m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u0102n m\u1eb7c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/h3>\n

Pachter nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng “qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c giao ti\u1ebfp phi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao uy t\u00edn ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m tuy t\u00edn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t nhanh ch\u00f3ng.<\/em> Th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn trang ph\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 “nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n th\u00f4ng minh khi ch\u1ecdn trang ph\u1ee5c tham d\u1ef1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp hay d\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn ph\u1ea3i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i “C\u1ea3m \u01a1n” m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai l\u1ea7n trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n<\/h3>\n

“B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai l\u1ea7n trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 ch\u00fat m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i”.<\/em><\/p>\n

G\u1eedi th\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ec7p c\u1ea3m \u01a1n ri\u00eang cho t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia<\/h3>\n

B\u1ea1n n\u00ean g\u1eedi thi\u1ec7p c\u1ea3m \u01a1n trong v\u00f2ng 24 gi\u1edd v\u00e0 n\u00ean g\u1eedi ri\u00eang cho t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n. Pachter c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh “Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1eefa email v\u00e0 th\u01b0 vi\u1ebft tay, h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng th\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebf t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn trong khi email c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng sau m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i trong t\u00fai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n

G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay ai c\u0169ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc smartphone v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n mang theo b\u00ean m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean mang n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 b\u1edfi c\u00e1c tin nh\u1eafn hay email nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng thi\u1ebfu l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra.<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i tr\u00ean b\u00e0n khi g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng d\u1eebng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p c\u1eadn c\u1ea3nh khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t (head shot) chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p<\/h3>\n
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Lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n g\u1eedi c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p l\u00ean LinkedIn<\/strong> v\u00e0 c\u00e1c trang web kh\u00e1c, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 trang web vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m hay website c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c… H\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady “n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady”, <\/em>\u0111\u1eebng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p \u0111i bi\u1ec3n. M\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh head shot ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o s\u1ebd l\u00e0m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ng\u1ef1c v\u00e0 vai. “B\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ec9 email chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p<\/h3>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty, h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ec9 email c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t email c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn nh\u1ea7m khi g\u1eedi th\u01b0 cho \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c email khi c\u00f2n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc hay c\u00f3 g\u1eafn v\u1edbi c\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t danh b\u1ea1n cho l\u00e0 “\u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau” v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u email v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u1eebng m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u email v\u1edbi c\u00e1c l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o trong v\u0103n n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “n\u00e0y anh b\u1ea1n” hay “yo”… Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd r\u00fat ng\u1eafn t\u00ean c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu qu\u00ean t\u00ean c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn<\/h3>\n

Thi tho\u1ea3ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd qu\u00ean t\u00ean c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, h\u00e3y th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u00e0 n\u00f3i “T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 xin l\u1ed7i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t t\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n”<\/em> ho\u1eb7c “Khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng r\u1ea5t quen. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i t\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1edbm th\u00f4i”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c<\/h3>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i “xin ch\u00e0o”<\/em> ho\u1eb7c “ch\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng”<\/em> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

“Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i xin ch\u00e0o tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n trong bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp \u0111\u00f3. Khi g\u1eedi l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u01a1 khai v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i xin ch\u00e0o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i xin ch\u00e0o tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn”.<\/em> \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a ph\u00e9p x\u00e3 giao.<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u1ecf v\u00e0o th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y kh\u00e9p c\u00e1c ng\u00f3n tay l\u1ea1i<\/h3>\n

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\u00a0<\/div>\n

“Khi tr\u1ecf v\u00e0o th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y l\u1eadt ng\u1eeda l\u00f2ng b\u00e0n tay v\u00e0 kh\u00e9p c\u00e1c ng\u00f3n tay l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f3n tr\u1ecf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t hung h\u0103ng”.<\/em> Ngo\u00e0i ra, Pachter c\u0169ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nam gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd<\/h3>\n

Lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ee3p. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u1ed9n ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t d\u1eabn t\u1edbi b\u1ecb mu\u1ed9n, h\u00e3y b\u00e1o cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 g\u1eedi email, tin nh\u1eafn ho\u1eb7c g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n. Xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do (tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i “h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u” l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i) v\u00e0 khi t\u1edbi n\u01a1i, \u0111\u1eebng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ea5t th\u00eam th\u1eddi gian b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng giao th\u00f4ng hay t\u00e0u b\u1ecb ho\u00e3n.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd k\u00e9o gh\u1ebf cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h3>\n

Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, k\u00e9o gh\u1ebf cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong kinh doanh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea7m r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i ph\u00eda sau c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. “\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 k\u00e9o gh\u1ebf cho h\u1ecd”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n b\u1ebb b\u00e1nh b\u1eb1ng hai tay<\/h3>\n

Theo Pachter, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng dao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1eaft b\u00e1nh trong m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. “H\u00e3y b\u1ebb \u0111\u00f4i b\u00e1nh v\u00e0 x\u00e9 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea3nh c\u00f9ng l\u00fac, sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ea5m b\u01a1 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0103n”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1eebng g\u1ecdi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u00f3n g\u00ec qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eaft<\/h3>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t mi\u1ebfng th\u1ecb b\u00f2 ho\u1eb7c t\u00f4m h\u00f9m \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111ang “l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng” ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 v\u1eady. “Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c g\u1ee3i \u00fd, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u00f3n g\u00ec nh\u01b0ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ecdn m\u00f3n \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n nh\u1ea5t”.<\/em> V\u1edbi r\u01b0\u1ee3u vang th\u00ec c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea9n th\u1eadn khi g\u1ecdi c\u00e1c m\u00f3n “\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t”<\/h3>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn khi \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n “\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t”. “Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3 khi m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn m\u00f3n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. C\u00e1c m\u00f3n n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 cao h\u01a1n 10 – 40% so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u00f3n trong menu ch\u00ednh, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ec7n khi h\u1ecfi gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a m\u00f3n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kinh doanh”<\/em>, Pachter khuy\u1ebfn c\u00e1o.<\/p>\n

“Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3 khi m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c m\u00f3n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. C\u00e1c m\u00f3n n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 cao h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb 10% \u0111\u1ebfn 40% v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ec7n khi h\u1ecfi gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c”.<\/em><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u00f3n \u0103n c\u00f3 s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 kh\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n khai v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n tr\u00e1ng mi\u00eang, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m theo nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. “\u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m cho kh\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi \u0103n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1eebng mang th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0<\/h3>\n

“B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa \u0103n t\u1ed1i v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c”<\/em> ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp m\u1eb7t gia \u0111\u00ecnh hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Do v\u1eady, \u0111\u1eebng xin h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ef1ng th\u1ee9c \u0103n th\u1eeba \u0111\u1ec3 mang v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00ec n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p ch\u00fat n\u00e0o c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eddi lu\u00f4n tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n<\/h3>\n

“N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 h\u00f3a \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef”<\/em>. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 n\u1eef v\u00e0 v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch nam mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n, h\u00e3y t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o: “\u1ed2 kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i tr\u1ea3 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ty t\u00f4i tr\u1ea3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

“Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1ch nam ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01a1n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 anh ta tr\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u1eebng say trong c\u00e1c b\u1eefa \u0103n t\u1ed1i v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn do say r\u01b0\u1ee3u ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb l\u1eddi c\u00e1o l\u1ed7i l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1<\/h3>\n

Pachter n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u00e1o l\u1ed7i l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ea7n ra ngo\u00e0i v\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 ph\u00e1t sinh ho\u1eb7c cu\u1ed9c g\u1ecdi quan tr\u1ecdng, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1o l\u1ed7i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i “R\u1ea5t vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n”,<\/em> “R\u1ea5t vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n”<\/em> hay “T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o tu\u1ea7n t\u1edbi t\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp”…<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ra v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi l\u00fd do v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, \u0103n c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi h\u1ecd r\u1eddi \u0111i…<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean m\u1edbi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eafn \u0111o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn: h\u1ecdc cao h\u1ecdc, \u0111i du h\u1ecdc, v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea, n\u1ed9p h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 xin m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c “b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng” \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u l\u00ean v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao h\u01a1n hay ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn “kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec” \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung \u00f4n thi IELTS\/TOEFL v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 trong tay t\u1ea5m b\u1eb1ng “qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf” n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp \u0111o\u00e0n \u0111a qu\u1ed1c gia hay m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ngu\u1ed3n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng “\u0111\u00e0n anh \u0111\u00e0n ch\u1ecb” t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00e2m huy\u1ebft n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean m\u1edbi ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41504"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41504"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41504\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":70758,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41504\/revisions\/70758"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}