{"id":4451,"date":"2023-11-29T20:51:50","date_gmt":"2023-11-29T20:51:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/?p=4451"},"modified":"2023-11-29T12:53:52","modified_gmt":"2023-11-29T12:53:52","slug":"10-suy-nghi-tieu-cuc-can-loai-bo-de-don-nhan-nhung-dieu-tot-dep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/10-suy-nghi-tieu-cuc-can-loai-bo-de-don-nhan-nhung-dieu-tot-dep.html","title":{"rendered":"10 Suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p"},"content":{"rendered":"
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N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec h\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ngay nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ecfi nam ch\u00e2m h\u00fat v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n thu h\u00fat nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec h\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ngay nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1eb1ng m\u00e0u \u0111en v\u00e0 tr\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e0u x\u00e1m. B\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t, \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng, h\u1ecd sai v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00fang. Thay v\u00ec l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n d\u1ed3n d\u1eadp ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec t\u01b0 duy b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7, kh\u00e9p k\u00edn, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u1eafng nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc, l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

Nghi ng\u1edd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ch\u1ea7n ch\u1eeb<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: “M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y”. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng\u00a0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng trong s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m b\u1ea1n lo s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u00f9n ch\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c nhi\u00ean th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 h\u00e3y vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ra gi\u1ea5y, x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 th\u1eddi h\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y qu\u00ean \u0111i vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn v\u00e0 nh\u1ecf, nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n v\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

So s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh, gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ee7 t\u00e2m t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y ng\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf hay l\u1edbn. Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u00e3y y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00ec sai l\u1ea7m, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00ec nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eebng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch qu\u00e1 s\u01a1 s\u00e0i, \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau. Ch\u00fang ta \u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 chi ti\u00eau qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c hay ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng qu\u00e1 k\u00e9m. D\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t, \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00ec nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m nh\u1ecf s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3, sau \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00ean n\u00f3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tinh th\u1ea7n h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i”, h\u00e3y xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua. “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c”, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y mai v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ebft nh\u1eadt k\u00fd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0o tu\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc, th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc hay 5 n\u0103m qua \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u00eam \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

Suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i “T\u00f4i th\u1eadt v\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1, T\u00f4i tr\u00f4ng h\u01a1i b\u00e9o, T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh, T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n qu\u00ean m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf”.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c tho\u1ea1i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o \u1edf b\u1ea1n v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110\u1eebng r\u00eau rao nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 h\u00e3y n\u00f3i l\u1eddi “c\u1ea3m \u01a1n” v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u00c1p \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng “T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, do \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt”. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, phi logic v\u00e0 phi l\u00fd tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 h\u00e3y nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy khan hi\u1ebfm<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u00e0 tham lam qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c. Ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i hay ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Do \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y hay \u0111i\u1ec1u kia tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1n. Suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 khan hi\u1ebfm ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch xem th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u t\u0103ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m bi quan<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, c\u00f4ng khai b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/p>\n

L\u1eddi n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i x\u00f3a b\u1ecf. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u00edch nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

Suy ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n cho ph\u00e9p m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng , b\u1ea1n xem m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. H\u00e3y xem m\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t va ch\u1ea1m tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 khi ai \u0111\u00f3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ph\u01a1i b\u00e0y h\u00e0nh vi thi\u1ebfu t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng th\u00eam c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t nh\u1ecf ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed3ng\/b\u1ea1n trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m sai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y coi r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p (m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ed5n).<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4i tu\u1ed9t \u0111i, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u01b0u \u00e1i b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eadn ra kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec h\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ngay nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ecfi nam ch\u00e2m h\u00fat v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[201],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4451"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4451"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4451\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4451"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4451"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4451"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}