{"id":44574,"date":"2023-12-12T12:18:52","date_gmt":"2023-12-12T12:18:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/trai-qua-mot-su-co-toi-nhan-ra-khong-nen-lam-viec-qua-cat-luc-cang-luoi-cang-khoe-cai-gi-can-chi-tien-thi-dung-ngai.html"},"modified":"2024-03-09T10:28:39","modified_gmt":"2024-03-09T03:28:39","slug":"trai-qua-mot-su-co-toi-nhan-ra-khong-nen-lam-viec-qua-cat-luc-cang-luoi-cang-khoe-cai-gi-can-chi-tien-thi-dung-ngai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/trai-qua-mot-su-co-toi-nhan-ra-khong-nen-lam-viec-qua-cat-luc-cang-luoi-cang-khoe-cai-gi-can-chi-tien-thi-dung-ngai.html","title":{"rendered":"Tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra: “Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 c\u1eadt l\u1ef1c, c\u00e0ng l\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng kh\u1ecfe, c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u1ea7n chi ti\u1ec1n th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"
\u0110\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1<\/span> kh\u00e1c, khi sinh con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u00f4i tr\u00f4ng ch\u00e1u, c\u00f2n ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111i l\u00e0m \u1edf \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb, m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, cho n\u00ean hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 neo \u0111\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ec3 qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 h\u01b0u kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n h\u01a1n. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0103n no kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0m, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p c\u0103n nh\u00e0, lau ch\u00f9i c\u1eeda s\u1ed5, h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd th\u00e1o r\u00e8m c\u1eeda ra gi\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, ra tr\u1ea3i gi\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ec1n g\u1ed1i th\u00ec s\u1ebd gi\u1eb7t m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. Nh\u00e0 v\u1ec7 sinh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ecd r\u1eeda g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u00e0 v\u1ec7 sinh xong th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y gi\u1ebb lau lau kh\u00f4. Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e2y xanh \u1edf nh\u00e0, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t mi\u1ebfng v\u1ea3i nh\u1ecf lau l\u00e1 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t b\u1ee5i. Qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o trong nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng m\u00e1y gi\u1eb7t n\u1eefa m\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n sang ch\u00e0 x\u00e1t b\u1eb1ng tay, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi n\u00e9m v\u00e0o m\u00e1y gi\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc. Sau khi s\u1ea5y, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u1ee7i v\u00e0 x\u1ebfp ch\u00fang g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u, khi ch\u1ed3ng th\u1ea5y t\u00f4i ch\u0103m l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, anh \u1ea5y c\u0169ng khen, nh\u01b0ng sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, anh \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, hi\u1ebfm khi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, chi b\u1eb1ng tranh th\u1ee7 \u0111i du l\u1ecbch, t\u1ecbnh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. N\u00f3i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, d\u00f9 sao th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ngh\u1ec9 h\u01b0u r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0103n ch\u01a1i th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ra g\u00ec, b\u1ecf b\u00ea gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m v\u1eady, d\u00f9 sao th\u00ec c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 quen r\u1ed3i, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng quen.<\/p>\n
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Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m nay, khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang g\u1ee1 r\u00e8m c\u1eeda th\u00ec v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ng\u00e3, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn g\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1t s\u1ed1ng th\u1eaft l\u01b0ng, tr\u1ea3i qua ca ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01a1n 3 th\u00e1ng. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00e1m qu\u00e1 lao l\u1ef1c n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t. V\u00ec v\u1eady, sau ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 v\u1ec7 sinh nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m n\u1eefa, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i thu\u00ea m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 gi\u00fap d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. V\u00ed nh\u01b0 r\u00e8m c\u1eeda, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u1edf t\u1ea7ng cao, b\u1ee5i b\u1ea9n ch\u1eafc c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u, n\u00ean t\u1ea7m n\u1eeda n\u0103m t\u00f4i m\u1edbi g\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1o ra gi\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. Qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 gi\u1eb7t tay n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eb7t tay v\u00e0 gi\u1eb7t m\u00e1y kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c nhau l\u00e0 bao. \u0110\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eb7t m\u00e1y s\u1ea1ch h\u01a1n gi\u1eb7t tay r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa c\u00f2n \u00edt l\u00e0m h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o. Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd n\u00e9m ch\u00fang v\u00e0o m\u00e1y gi\u1eb7t, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c. Sofa, \u0111\u1ec7m,… t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng m\u00e1y h\u00fat b\u1ee5i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u1eefa, d\u00f9 sao th\u00ec nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb em, n\u00ean nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec7 sinh n\u00e0y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng. C\u00e2y v\u00e0 hoa trong nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u1ebf, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u01b0\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc cho ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng may ch\u1ebft th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd thay m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y kh\u00e1c, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn. Th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u1edf nh\u00e0 xem tivi, t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e0i th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng ng\u1ee7 ngh\u1ec9. Sau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i d\u1ea1o, \u0111i ch\u1ee3 mua th\u1ee9c \u0103n xong, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111i c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e1t h\u00f2, th\u00ec s\u1ebd gh\u00e9 th\u0103m nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 \u0111i ch\u01a1i m\u1ea1t ch\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft t\u1ed1t th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111i mua s\u1eafm \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat.<\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 l\u1ebd cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng v\u00e0 sa ng\u00e3. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i, tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0 th\u00ec l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f2n ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ee7i ro kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n. H\u00e3y khi\u1ebfn cho m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0. V\u00e0 k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 kia, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u. C\u0169ng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y tr\u00f4i qua tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y m\u00e0u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n trong ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n, tinh th\u1ea7n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t. V\u00ec v\u1eady, sau c\u00fa ng\u00e3 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn kia, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed9 ra m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, r\u1eb1ng: Khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 r\u1ed3i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 c\u1eadt l\u1ef1c, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng l\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1i l\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u1eb1m c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n lo l\u1eafng, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft th\u00ec c\u1ee9 chi, \u0111\u1eebng mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd v\u00ec ti\u1ebfc ti\u1ec1n m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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