{"id":4479,"date":"2023-11-29T18:51:49","date_gmt":"2023-11-29T18:51:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/?p=4479"},"modified":"2023-11-29T13:31:47","modified_gmt":"2023-11-29T13:31:47","slug":"tu-duy-tich-cuc-co-thay-doi-phan-cua-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/tu-duy-tich-cuc-co-thay-doi-phan-cua-ban.html","title":{"rendered":"T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u1ebfu x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, th\u00ec\u00a0t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/em>\u00a0l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00fap cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng v\u00f4 t\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nh\u1edd c\u00e1c n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng khi\u1ebfn cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i t\u01b0 duy ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00ec t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ngay t\u1ea1i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00ec m\u1ed7i th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean s\u1ebd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e0i n\u0103ng. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m x\u00f3i m\u00f2n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean, t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u00edch k\u1ef7, tham lam v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy hay suy ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi h\u01a1n lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt v\u00e0 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng chi ph\u1ed1i th\u1ebf g\u1edbi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. V\u00e0 qua t\u01b0 duy, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c?\u201d tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft t\u01b0 duy l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec? V\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c?<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh nh\u1eefng thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t quy lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1ch quan hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c t\u01b0 duy l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1i m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0103n u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m, nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. C\u00f2n \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m cho tinh th\u1ea7n. Tinh th\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m b\u1ed5 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng g\u00ec? Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m b\u1ed5 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 hay t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. V\u1eady t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch t\u1ef1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00fang, nh\u1eafm tr\u00fang – th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201cs\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d hay \u201cth\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d khi nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1, m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt, m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i hay, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t; n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebfn c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t; v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Hay n\u00f3i ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn h\u01a1n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 vui s\u01b0\u1edbng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy hay suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng, m\u1ed7i suy ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01a1m hoa k\u1ebft tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t. Suy ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o hay ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 hay v\u00f9i d\u1eadp. Khi ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an, ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n.\u00a0Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/em>\u00a0mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n\u00a0ch\u00fang ta<\/em>\u00a0v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3\u00a0d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng.<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra? Theo t\u00ednh to\u00e1n, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trung b\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 30.000 – 50.000 \u00fd ngh\u0129 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111ang trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng stress s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u suy ngh\u0129 h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 80.000 suy ngh\u0129. H\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1ea7n kinh v\u00ec g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t x\u1ea3y ra trong \u0111\u1eddi, l\u00fac \u1ea5y c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n \u00fd ngh\u0129 ch\u1ea1y d\u1ed3n d\u1eadp trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

T\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9 ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u1ee7. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, suy ngh\u0129 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng cho nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn (bao g\u1ed3m c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c) c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1c quan, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch chuy\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00e0nh thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft n\u1eafm b\u1eaft nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1eebng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1eeb th\u1eed th\u00e1ch.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1eb1m kh\u01a1i d\u1eady nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f2n ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n \u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u00ed r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n n\u00ean r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111ang x\u1ea5u \u0111i v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang k\u00eau g\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n \u201c\u1ee7ng h\u1ed9\u201d b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n r\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec5u v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac m\u1edbi sinh, hay b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd ch\u1eadm ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t, th\u00ec h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u khi ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129, c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn v\u1edbi t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 v\u1ec1\u00a0k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng \u00edt b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u201cv\u1ee1 m\u1ed9ng\u201d l\u1ea7n h\u1ed3i m\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean bi quan v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng xung quanh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng giao l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng th\u1ebf, khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00e1 vi\u1ec5n v\u00f4ng hay qu\u00e1 kh\u00edch d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Khi h\u1ecd b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng mong \u01b0\u1edbc, kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, khi ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh dung, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 v\u1ee1 m\u1ed9ng, l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ch\u00f2a nh\u1eadp\u201d v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t \u1ea5y v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ecdi l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n nay c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u00f4 t\u01b0 v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 phi l\u00fd di\u1ec5n ra h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em, h\u1ecdc sinh hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i sinh vi\u00ean th\u00ec ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef cho c\u00e1c em nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho em c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c sau n\u00e0y khi c\u00e1c em tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

B\u1ed1n nh\u00f3m t\u01b0 duy th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y tr\u00ed \u00f3c ta s\u1ea3n sinh ra kho\u1ea3ng 30.000 \u0111\u1ebfn 50.000 \u00fd ngh\u0129. Trong con s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1 l\u1edbn n\u00e0y, li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau \u00fd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00edch v\u00e0 bao nhi\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00edch? \u0110\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i ch\u00fang, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta chia \u00fd ngh\u0129 th\u00e0nh b\u1ed1n nh\u00f3m:<\/p>\n

(1) T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/strong>: l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 cho c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0: t\u1ef1 tin, l\u1ea1c quan, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, bao dung, \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft\u2026<\/p>\n

(2) T\u01b0 duy ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/strong>: l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0: t\u1ef1 ti, ganh t\u1ef5, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, \u00edch k\u1ef7\u2026 \u201cMay m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng v\u1edb ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4 ta!\u201d c\u0169ng thu\u1ed9c nh\u00f3m c\u00e2u \u201cNho tr\u00ean c\u00e0nh c\u00f2n xanh l\u1eafm!\u201d c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u).<\/p>\n

(3) T\u01b0 duy l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed<\/strong>: l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u201cr\u00e1c\u201d, ngh\u0129 v\u01a1 v\u1ea9n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 qua ho\u1eb7c ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0m ti\u00eau hao n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t th\u00ed sinh trong ph\u00f2ng thi m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 s\u1eafp t\u1edbi hay t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1m th\u1ecb t\u1eb7ng cho \u0111\u00e1p \u00e1n thay v\u00ec t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o l\u00e0m b\u00e0i th\u00ec th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111ang t\u01b0 duy l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed.<\/p>\n

(4)\u00a0T\u01b0 duy c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/em><\/strong>: l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng, di\u1ec5n\u00a0<\/em>vi\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadp vai hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f9ng th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3…<\/p>\n

L\u1ed1i t\u01b0 duy g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u00fd ngh\u0129 sinh ra d\u00f9 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft hay kh\u00f4ng, d\u00f9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c hay t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. V\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh trung n\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta t\u00f9y theo \u0111i\u1ec3m xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i t\u01b0 duy n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

3. T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong kinh doanh<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean trong c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c d\u1eef d\u1ed9i nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9i qu\u00e2n b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9i qu\u00e2n ti\u00ean phong tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, mang ti\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 cho doanh nghi\u1ec7p. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a doanh nghi\u1ec7p. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c trong doanh nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 h\u1eadu c\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed9i ti\u1ec1n phong n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9i n\u00e0y th\u1ea5t tr\u1eadn l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 doanh nghi\u1ec7p s\u1ebd thua l\u1ed7. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169 b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u01b0u t\u00fa, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00e2u th\u1eafng \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 thua.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169 b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c duy nh\u1ea5t – h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n tin l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1eafng, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n quy\u1ebft th\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1eef \u201cth\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i\u201d trong t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc, h\u1ecdc xong l\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 xong. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. C\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, h\u1ecdp h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n, picnic, \u0111i ch\u01a1i chung th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean\u2026 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m duy nh\u1ea5t – gi\u1eef cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u0111\u00f3?<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i chung, k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1m chia th\u00e0nh b\u1ed1n nh\u00f3m: T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u00e1c phong t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n

(1)<\/strong>\u00a0T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong>, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m trong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh \u201cT\u00f4i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng!\u201d<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m\u00a0nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n. B<\/strong>\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u01a1ng gia gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt l\u1ed7i l\u1ea1c trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 Siemens, ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia c\u1ea3nh c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111eo \u0111u\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia c\u01a1 kh\u00ed, m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u01a1ng gia l\u1ed7i l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vinh danh \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho h\u00e3ng \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed Siemens n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u00e0y nay.<\/p>\n

T\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/strong>\u00a0\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00eam ph\u1ea5n ch\u1ea5n. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi:\u00a0\u201cM\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 ra?\u201d v\u00e0<\/em>\u00a0h\u00e3y li\u1ec7t k\u00ea nh\u1eefng \u201cth\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong t\u00e2m t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u201cquy\u1ebfn r\u0169\u201d th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c m\u1ecdi l\u00fac m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i.<\/strong>\u00a0H\u00e3y vi\u1ebft ra nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean gi\u1ea5y v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n \u0111em theo ch\u00fang b\u00ean m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 xem \u0111i xem l\u1ea1i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u00e0 \u201cv\u1eadt h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh\u201d, h\u00e3y v\u1ebd n\u00f3 ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n h\u00e2m n\u00f3ng b\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ngh\u0129 t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh<\/strong>: m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u00e0i, m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng minh, m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 duy\u00ean\u2026 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng hay ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i hay c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i hay c\u1ee7a s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang kinh doanh.<\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb<\/strong>. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cH\u00f4m nay ch\u1ecb th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d \u201cH\u00f4m nay tr\u1eddi n\u1eafng \u0111\u1eb9p, em r\u1ea5t vui, v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7y m\u1ed9t b\u00e0n, b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n l\u00e0 em vui r\u1ed3i\u201d. (Thay v\u00ec: H\u00f4m nay n\u00f3ng m\u1ec7t qu\u00e1. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea1i d\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed1ng, qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t). Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh, th\u00ec c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u1eabn t\u00edch c\u1ef1c: \u201cM\u1ea5y h\u00f4m nay \u1ed1m ph\u1ea3i \u1edf nh\u00e0, h\u00f4m nay em \u0111i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i. V\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t t\u00ed. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 em vui r\u1ed3i\u201d. (Thay v\u00ec: Em v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ec7nh, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 \u0111i l\u00e0m, s\u1ee3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c d\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed1ng).<\/p>\n

(2)<\/strong>\u00a0T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e0ng b\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u201cb\u1ea1n b\u00e8\u201d gi\u1eefa m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. \u201cLi\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t\u201d s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 mua hay kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o cho m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Cho n\u00ean, mua hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n ph\u1ee5, l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 y\u00eau m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh. Cho n\u00ean, h\u00e3y xem h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

(3)<\/strong>\u00a0T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m m\u1edbi n\u00e0y, n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n l\u1ee3i cho vi\u1ec7c n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t th\u00edch m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh d\u00f9ng n\u00f3, v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u00a0c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m t\u1ed1t, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch m\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u00fap b\u1ea1n\u201d ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201cb\u00e1n h\u00e0ng\u201d.<\/p>\n

(4)\u00a0T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u n\u00e0o th\u00ec tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec th\u00ec gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ki\u1ec3u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng, \u201ct\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u2026\u201d, \u201ct\u00f4i gh\u00e9t\u2026\u201d, \u201ct\u00f4i khinh th\u01b0\u1eddng\u2026\u201d, \u201cm\u1ea5y lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3..\u201d, \u2026<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ea bai s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty kh\u00e1c, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e0: \u201cT\u00f4i m\u00ea h\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty t\u00f4i n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng h\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty kh\u00e1c\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Nh\u01b0, chi\u1ebfn tranh \u1edf Iraq, tin ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3\u2026 N\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec \u1eeb h\u1eed cho qua chuy\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n vui v\u1ebb y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 \u201cc\u00f9ng vui v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n\u201d ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng. L\u00e0m cho kh\u00e1ch vui v\u00e0 gi\u00fap kh\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 c\u00e1c ti\u1ec7n \u00edch li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m. N\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng mua, c\u0169ng vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch m\u1edbi mua m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng. Kh\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng mua (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec t\u00ecm kh\u00f4ng ra m\u00f3n h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n\u200e) nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen v\u00e0o c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch th\u00edch m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cb\u00e1n h\u00e0ng\u201d, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u201cx\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8\u201d. \u201cLi\u00ean h\u1ec7\u201d s\u1ebd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng cho m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o tr\u00ec \u201cli\u00ean h\u1ec7\u201d. C\u00e1c k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt bu\u00f4n b\u00e1n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c ra c\u0169ng l\u00e0 qui lu\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, trong kinh doanh.<\/p>\n

4. Luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/h3>\n

L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t doanh nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a doanh nghi\u1ec7p. R\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng va ch\u1ea1m.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 bi quan v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/em>\u201d,<\/em>\u00a0Matthew Dalla Porta, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean vi\u00ean c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n, cho bi\u1ebft. B\u1ed9 n\u00e3o lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i v\u00e0 l\u01b0u tr\u1eef nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin x\u1ea5u. D\u00f9 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u00fap ta t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u1ed1i \u01b0u, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi phi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111ang say ng\u1ee7. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c t\u00e0i, c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t thi\u00ean t\u00e0i ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang ch\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c\u2026 Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho ch\u00ednh suy ngh\u0129, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ngh\u0129, n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. \u00a0Cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra, ta lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng<\/em>\u00a0bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta bu\u00f4ng tay t\u1eeb\u00a0b\u1ecf khi<\/em>\u00a0m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u1ed7\u00a0\u00a0l\u1ef1c\u00a0n\u1eefa\u2026\u00a0<\/em>Th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c khi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n. Ta gieo h\u1ea1t t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng qu\u1ea3 x\u1ea5u l\u1ea1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, r\u1ed3i ta ho\u00e0i nghi li\u1ec7u quy lu\u1eadt n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng? Th\u1ef1c ra, m\u1ed7i h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian n\u1ea3y m\u1ea7m v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean ri\u00eang. Rau mu\u1ed1ng sau m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu ho\u1ea1ch trong khi xo\u00e0i ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t v\u00e0i n\u0103m m\u1edbi cho qu\u1ea3. V\u00ec v\u1eady ta c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho \u201ch\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng\u201d t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gieo. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed khi th\u1ea5y qu\u1ea3 ch\u01b0a ch\u00edn.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf khi b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb vua mu\u1ed1n \u0111i kh\u1eafp v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n tr\u1ea7n. Khi ng\u00e0i \u0111ang \u0111i th\u00ec gi\u1eabm ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t h\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1 nh\u1ecdn s\u1eafc b\u00ean l\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i quay v\u1ec1 cung \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n tr\u1ea7y x\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 t\u00edm b\u1ea7m. Vua tri\u1ec7u ngay quan t\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o cung v\u00e0 ra l\u1ec7nh cho \u00f4ng ta l\u00f3t da kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng trong v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ec3 vua c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. V\u1ecb t\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00e2u r\u1eb1ng:\u00a0\u201cTh\u01b0a b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1, th\u1ea7n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft hay v\u00ec n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf\u201d<\/em>. Quan t\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbng xin ph\u00e9p vua ra ngo\u00e0i, r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y da. \u00d4ng d\u00e2ng n\u00f3 l\u00ean cho \u0111\u1ee9c vua v\u00e0 n\u00f3i:\u00a0\u201cTh\u1ea7n ngh\u0129 b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 n\u00ean mang \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y n\u00e0y. B\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb x\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed7i v\u1ecb vua n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2013 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn lao v\u01b0\u1ee3t ngo\u00e0i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, trong khi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n m\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i cao. Ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ta c\u00f2n cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, thay v\u00ec t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n ta ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u0110\u1ec3 xua tan b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, ta c\u1ea7n b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n l\u00ean; \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua gi\u00e1 l\u1ea1nh, ta c\u1ea7n b\u1eadt l\u00f2 s\u01b0\u1edfi; \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, ta\u00a0c\u1ea7n\u00a0ph\u1ea3i thay th\u1ebf ch\u00fang b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. H\u00e3y kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t, khi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 Dr. Joseph Murphy (tr\u00edch t\u1eeb s\u00e1ch\u00a0L\u0103ng k\u00ednh T\u00e2m h\u1ed3n\u00a0do\u00a0First News \u2013 Tr\u00ed Vi\u1ec7t\u00a0ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh).<\/p>\n

T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch t\u1edbi l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n

(1) Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cKhi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i,<\/em>\u201d Della Porta n\u00f3i. Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho n\u00e3o b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n, h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nguy\u00ean do v\u00ec sao. H\u00e3y vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u may m\u1eafn b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch, ho\u1eb7c may m\u1eafn c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh. M\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p x\u1ea3y ra trong ng\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u00e3y vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch x\u00fac t\u00edch v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 nh\u1edb. Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u201cmay m\u1eafn\u201d khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

(2) Qu\u1ea3 quy\u1ebft kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00ed quy\u1ebft th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o l\u00e0 khi m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u00f3 h\u01a1n. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, h\u00e3y l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. H\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn ra hai t\u1edbi ba \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u cho nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0:\u00a0\u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n d\u00f9 c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec\u201d, \u201cc\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian\u201d, \u201ct\u00f4i \u0111ang d\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 h\u01a1n\u201d.<\/em>\u00a0Vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

(3) Th\u1eed th\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i. Theo ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i. N\u00e3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang tr\u1edf n\u00ean nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. \u0110\u1ec3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 quan s\u00e1t kh\u00e1ch quan h\u01a1n v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y th\u1eed th\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1edfi nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng ph\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n mong \u0111\u1ee3i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb b\u1ea5t t\u00e0i<\/em>\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp t\u01b0 duy theo h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c, v\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cM\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng\u00a0h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c,\u00a0nh\u01b0ng\u00a0v\u1eabn\u00a0ch\u01b0a\u00a0\u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. M\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd thu th\u1eadp th\u00eam th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m l\u1ea1i<\/em>\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy v\u1ecb tha h\u01a1n, s\u00e1t v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ec7c suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

5. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u t\u1eeb t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 thu nh\u1eadp, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u201ccha gi\u00e0u, cha ngh\u00e8o\u201d c\u1ee7a Robert Kiyosaki, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0u c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Robert Kiyosaki c\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ru\u1ed9t v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 cha nu\u00f4i. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00e1c nhau ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n

Trong khi cha ru\u1ed9t cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201cS\u1ef1 \u0111am m\u00ea ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u xa\u201d v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ec1n, cha nu\u00f4i l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cThi\u1ebfu h\u1ee5t ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u\u201d v\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ec1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1eeda mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ru\u1ed9t l\u00e0: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng mua m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 n\u00e0y\u201d. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha gi\u00e0u t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh: \u201cL\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 n\u00e0y?\u201d.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ru\u1ed9t \u2013 v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u2013 lu\u00f4n khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi, l\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng v\u1ec1 lu\u1eadt, k\u1ebf to\u00e1n hay th\u1ea1c s\u0129 qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb kinh doanh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, l\u01b0\u01a1ng cao.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nu\u00f4i \u2013 v\u1ed1n ch\u01b0a h\u1ecdc xong l\u1edbp 8 \u2013 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0u c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap Kiyosaki quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ee9c tranh t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quan tr\u1ecdng trong c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Kiyosaki cho r\u1eb1ng, \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang b\u1ecb k\u00ecm h\u00e3m b\u1edfi n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3. T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi r\u1ee7i ro v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u suy ngh\u0129, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i trang b\u1ecb v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f4ng minh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh.<\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 8 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 t\u1eeb cu\u1ed1n \u201cCha gi\u00e0u, cha ngh\u00e8o\u201d c\u1ee7a Robert Kiyosaki:<\/p>\n

(1) Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o b\u1ecb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t b\u1edfi hai c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1t khao. C\u1ee9 th\u1ebf v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n bu\u1ed9c ch\u1eb7t th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n m\u00e0 b\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho m\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n nh\u01b0 cha ngh\u00e8o v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang l\u00e0m. Lu\u00f4n suy ngh\u0129, quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m ra ti\u1ec1n v\u1ed1n lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu chung quanh ch\u00fang ta. Tuy v\u1eady, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. L\u00e0m gi\u00e0u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n m\u00e0 b\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

(2) T\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e2y ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 sinh s\u00f4i n\u1ea3y n\u1edf.<\/p>\n

(3) Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c kinh doanh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef cho c\u1ed9t t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 1 \u0111\u1ed3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n c\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u.<\/p>\n

(4) Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u th\u00f4ng minh v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ty.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 4 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c sau: S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 k\u1ebf to\u00e1n, t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh; n\u1eafm v\u1eefng c\u00e1c chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0; hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u1ec1 ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p.<\/p>\n

– S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 k\u1ebf to\u00e1n, t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng b\u00e1o c\u00e1o t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft m\u1eb7t m\u1ea1nh, m\u1eb7t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00f4ng ty n\u00e0o sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e1o c\u00e1o t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a n\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

– N\u1eafm v\u1eefng c\u00e1c chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecdn t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng sinh l\u1ee3i, ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 kh\u00f4n ngoan.<\/p>\n

– Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u1ec1 ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u n\u1eafm r\u00f5 quy lu\u1eadt cung v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n c\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i kinh doanh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm v\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u1ec1 ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb v\u00e0 b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

– Hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ty nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 thu\u1ebf v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o v\u00e0 trung l\u01b0u ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, tr\u1ea3 thu\u1ebf r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng ti\u1ec1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u \u2013 s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u00f4ng ty \u2013 th\u00ec ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, d\u00f9ng r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi tr\u1ea3 thu\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

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(5) Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u t\u1ea1o ra ti\u1ec1n. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea9m sinh, tuy v\u1eady r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e0i n\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ea1o ra may m\u1eafn cho m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng ng\u1ed3i ch\u1edd c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

(6) Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u, n\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, m\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a th\u00f4ng minh t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh: k\u1ebf to\u00e1n \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0, ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 lu\u1eadt kinh doanh, \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng: qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd v\u00f2ng quay ti\u1ec1n m\u1eb7t, qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng, qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

(7) Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u, v\u00e0 v\u1eabn k\u1eb9t trong v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m thu\u00ea. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 5 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf sau:<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Lo s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n<\/em>. N\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu trong m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 lo s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n ch\u1ecdn vi\u1ec7c \u0111i l\u00e0m thu\u00ea \u0111\u1ec3 su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi k\u1eb9t trong v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo s\u1ee3 \u00edt h\u01a1n th\u00ec ch\u1ecdn l\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 an to\u00e0n: h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u00edt r\u1ee7i ro nh\u01b0 tr\u00e1i phi\u1ebfu. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi can \u0111\u1ea3m d\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro \u2013 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u2013 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0S\u1ef1 ho\u00e0i nghi<\/em>. M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa g\u00e0 con \u2013 ho\u00e0i nghi v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u2013 trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Ch\u00fang k\u00eau l\u00ean th\u1ea3ng th\u1ed1t \u201ctr\u1eddi s\u1eafp s\u1eadp\u201d m\u1ed7i khi ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi, c\u00f3 t\u00ednh b\u1ee9t ph\u00e1.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0S\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng<\/em>. S\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n th\u1eadt ra l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng. H\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa b\u1ec7nh l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u00f2ng tham. \u00cdt l\u00f2ng tham th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. L\u00f2ng tham qu\u00e1 cao c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Th\u00f3i quen<\/em>. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u. Th\u00f3i quen quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi tr\u1ea3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1edd \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 n\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n tr\u1ea3 cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0T\u00ednh ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o<\/em>. S\u1ef1 ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u.<\/p>\n

(8) H\u00e3y kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng 10 b\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 1: H\u00e3y x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u1edbn h\u01a1n th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 2: H\u00e3y l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 3: Lu\u00f4n giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. Ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 4: N\u1eafm v\u1eefng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi h\u1ecdc c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 5: H\u00e3y tr\u1ea3 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ra ti\u1ec1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 n\u1ee3. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 6: Ch\u1ec9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f4i gi\u1edbi gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 cho h\u1ecd x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 7: Lu\u00f4n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ec1n l\u1eddi t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 (ROI) v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 8: Lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng, \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng cao c\u1ea5p. H\u00e3y mua t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 9: Khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eefng anh h\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. Khi \u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 10: H\u00e3y d\u1ea1y cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc; h\u00e3y cho v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i,<\/em>\u00a0kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u<\/em>\u00a0l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i,\u00a0theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 nu\u00f4i l\u1edbn ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 b\u1ecf \u0111\u00f3i n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3,<\/em>\u00a0\u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi\u00a0tham gia cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng… l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u1edbi g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o\u00a0gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 nu\u00f4i l\u1edbn n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 b\u1ecf \u0111\u00f3i ni\u1ec1m tin.<\/em>\u00a0\u201cM\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng, m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a anh ta v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch anh ta \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng\u201d – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a Robert Kiyosaki.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u1ebfu x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, th\u00ec\u00a0t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u00a0l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00fap cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng v\u00f4 t\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nh\u1edd c\u00e1c n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng khi\u1ebfn cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[201],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4479"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4479"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4479\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4479"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4479"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4479"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}