{"id":4617,"date":"2023-11-29T20:56:57","date_gmt":"2023-11-29T20:56:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/?p=4617"},"modified":"2023-11-29T23:11:51","modified_gmt":"2023-11-29T23:11:51","slug":"thai-cua-ban-se-quyet-dinh-va-lam-thay-doi-cuoc-doi-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/thai-cua-ban-se-quyet-dinh-va-lam-thay-doi-cuoc-doi-ban.html","title":{"rendered":"Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/h2>\n
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H\u00e3y n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

TTO – H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

\u2022 T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c theo nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh l\u1ea1c quan, t\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y hi v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

\u2022 T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n l\u1ea1c quan tin r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

\u2022 T\u00f4i h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3n ch\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi. T\u00f4i t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e2n hoan h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft!<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y tin m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i th\u00ec thay v\u00ec c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eafm m\u00ecnh m\u00e3i trong s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, o\u00e1n than, ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i, t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3?<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u1ea3nh n\u1ee3 n\u1ea7n v\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 tin v\u00e0o n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec1m tin do th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. V\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m \u01a1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft h\u00e2n hoan ch\u1edd \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi m\u1ebb \u0111ang \u0111\u1ebfn. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p, th\u1eadt \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng, khi v\u1eeba t\u1ec9nh gi\u1ea5c, suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201cTh\u1eadt kh\u1ed5 th\u00e2n t\u00f4i, gi\u1edd t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00ea m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i l\u00e0m\u201d hay c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201cTh\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi! H\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi, ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p!\u201d. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, xem n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 bi quan, m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t, sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c thay th\u1ebf ch\u00fang b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan, ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi h\u01a1n? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

\u1ede ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra sao? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 vui v\u1ebb tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khi h\u1ecd h\u1ecfi th\u0103m m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? Hay b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111i l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y sao?\u201d.<\/p>\n

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C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft l\u00fd qu\u00e1 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, t\u1eeb h\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 90, trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch mang t\u00ean \u201cSelf Mastery Through Conscious Autosuggestion\u201d, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p \u00c9mile Cou\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u00ean ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: \u201cM\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y tr\u00f4i qua, ta s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 h\u01a1n\u201d. H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 h\u01a1n ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m qua, r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 h\u00e3y tin m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec, ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec1m tin n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh trong b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang d\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh h\u1eb1ng \u1ea5p \u1ee7!<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd t\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin trong b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 suy ng\u1eabm<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c10% cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 do nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra, c\u00f2n 90% c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn.\u201d<\/p>\n

– Irving Berlin<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cTh\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n hay m\u00e3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 gi\u00e0 \u0111i.\u201d<\/p>\n

– Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Creflo Dollar<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cKh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng sai l\u1ea7m.\u201d<\/p>\n

– W.W. Ziege<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ni\u1ec1m tin L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00f2ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb t\u00edch c\u1ef1c TTO – H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[201,204],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4617"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4617"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4617\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4617"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4617"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4617"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}