{"id":4626,"date":"2023-11-29T21:35:32","date_gmt":"2023-11-29T21:35:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/?p=4626"},"modified":"2023-11-29T23:32:17","modified_gmt":"2023-11-29T23:32:17","slug":"thai-song-lua-chon-de-thanh-cong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/thai-song-lua-chon-de-thanh-cong.html","title":{"rendered":"TH\u00c1I \u0110\u1ed8 S\u1ed0NG \u2013 L\u1ef0A CH\u1eccN \u0110\u1ec2 TH\u00c0NH C\u00d4NG"},"content":{"rendered":"

Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1ch quan m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng mang l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 TH\u00c1I \u0110\u1ed8 s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Trong ti\u1ebfng anh TH\u00c1I \u0110\u1ed8 l\u00e0: ATTITUDE \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gh\u00e9p b\u1edfi 8 k\u00fd t\u1ef1. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t \u00fd ngh\u0129a gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng ch\u1eef c\u00e1i trong b\u1ea3ng ch\u1eef c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p t\u00ednh sau nh\u00e9:<\/p>\n

\"picture1\"Trong t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec3n Ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u00e0\u00a0\u201cc\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a \u00fd ngh\u0129, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Theo H. Fillmore\u00a0\u201cTh\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hay m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bao g\u1ed3m c\u00f3: Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n\u2026<\/p>\n

Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ni\u1ec1m tin, v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c nhau cho n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 h\u1ecd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, hay \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, cho s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac chi ph\u1ed1i. Song b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00e2y m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e1ng l\u01b0u \u00fd. H\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng d\u00f9 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua v\u00f4 v\u00e0n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3. H\u1ecd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh. T\u1ea1i sao? B\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. H\u1ecd duy tr\u00ec tinh th\u1ea7n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

Winston Churchill \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i:\u00a0\u201cTh\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u0111i t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh\u201d<\/em>. Hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n Churchill l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. \u00d4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111o\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i Nobel v\u00e0 hai l\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea7u l\u00e0m Th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a V\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c Anh nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi, \u00f4ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1ea5t c\u1eed v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t gh\u1ebf trong Qu\u1ed1c h\u1ed9i. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi \u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh Th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 62.<\/p>\n

Quay ng\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eddi gian c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec3u s\u1eed c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng danh nh\u00e2n, doanh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf: \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ra sao l\u00e0 do c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3:<\/p>\n

Benjamin Franklin \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc khi \u00f4ng m\u1edbi 10 tu\u1ed5i b\u1edfi cha m\u1eb9 \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 trang tr\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc ph\u00ed. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n \u00f4ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc, t\u1ef1 trau d\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

Franklin Roosevelt \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb li\u1ec7t t\u1eeb th\u1eaft l\u01b0ng tr\u1edf xu\u1ed1ng khi \u00f4ng 39 tu\u1ed5i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 .<\/p>\n

Thomas Edison \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra chi\u1ebfc b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ra sao n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e8n \u0111i\u1ec7n?<\/p>\n

Richard Branson b\u1ecb m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecdc. \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ebfp v\u00e0o l\u1edbp thu\u1ed9c di\u1ec7n con nh\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

Oprah Winfrey \u0111\u00e3 mang thai \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 14. \u0110\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n thay \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t ngay sau khi sinh. V\u00ec qu\u00e1 \u0111au bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0. B\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng anh em h\u1ecd, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e0 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t. Tuy nhi\u00ean v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1eef ho\u00e0ng truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n may m\u1eafn c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ cao nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady \u0111\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 do b\u1ea1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1ch quan m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng mang l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 TH\u00c1I \u0110\u1ed8 s\u1ed1ng. Trong ti\u1ebfng anh TH\u00c1I \u0110\u1ed8 l\u00e0: ATTITUDE \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gh\u00e9p b\u1edfi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[201,204],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4626"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4626"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4626\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4626"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4626"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4626"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}