{"id":47407,"date":"2023-12-16T17:54:47","date_gmt":"2023-12-16T17:54:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nice-guy-syndrome-la-gi-ban-co-dang-gap-hoi-chung-nguoi-tot.html"},"modified":"2023-12-16T17:54:47","modified_gmt":"2023-12-16T17:54:47","slug":"nice-guy-syndrome-la-gi-ban-co-dang-gap-hoi-chung-nguoi-tot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nice-guy-syndrome-la-gi-ban-co-dang-gap-hoi-chung-nguoi-tot.html","title":{"rendered":"Nice Guy Syndrome L\u00e0 G\u00ec? B\u1ea1n C\u00f3 \u0110ang G\u1eb7p H\u1ed9i Ch\u1ee9ng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi T\u1ed1t?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb trong \u0111\u00e1y l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? B\u1ea1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb h\u1ecd? N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t hay nice guy syndrome. V\u1eady nice guy syndrome <\/strong>l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y, m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng Masterskills t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u chi ti\u1ebft trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

1. Nice guy syndrome l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Nice guy syndrome<\/em> hay h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t<\/strong>. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm khi n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, xung \u0111\u1ed9t, v.v.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111ang m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t<\/strong>? Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t narcissist, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eed t\u1ebf l\u00e0:<\/p>\n

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  • Lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb7t nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean tr\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n
  • H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eed t\u1ebf, th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n
  • Lu\u00f4n mong \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n
  • C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    \"Nice\"Nice
    Nice guy syndrome c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n

    C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, nice guy syndrome c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, hay trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

    Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nice guy syndrome s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eb1m mong nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

    Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? H\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng, s\u1ed1ng bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft ta, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.\u00a0V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nice guy th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, t\u1eed t\u1ebf th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. <\/p>\n

    2. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn t\u1edbi h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t:<\/p>\n

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    • \u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ea5y.<\/li>\n
    • Mong mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t<\/li>\n
    • T\u00e2m l\u00fd mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn.\u00a0<\/li>\n
    • Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf, ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed, v.v t\u1ea1o ra n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t.<\/li>\n
    • \u00c1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      3. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u1eeb h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      Hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng duy tr\u00ec h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, stress, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 do.<\/p>\n

      Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf t\u1ed1i \u0111a nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, do \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1i chia s\u1ebb \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t quy\u1ec1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

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      \"h\u1ed9i\"h\u1ed9i
      \u201cC\u00e1i g\u00ec qu\u00e1 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t\u201d, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t\u201d.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n

      4. C\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 nice guy syndrome<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t? C\u00f9ng Masterskills kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 chi ti\u1ebft trong ph\u1ea7n d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

      4.1. \u01afu ti\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nice guy syndrome lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb7t nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean tr\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Do \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 Masterskills mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u01b0u ti\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.\u00a0<\/p>\n

      Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

      4.2. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u t\u1ed1i \u0111a \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00f4 l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

      B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

      T\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i sao cho kh\u00e9o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n trang b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1eeba tr\u00e1nh x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1eeba th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed tinh t\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

      \n
      \"nice\"nice
      H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n

      4.3. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm khi chia s\u1ebb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m hay \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd theo s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch chia s\u1ebb \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

      Do \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nice guy syndrome. L\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed, phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v.v.\u00a0<\/p>\n

      T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p hay ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u00e0m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ef1 ti v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.\u00a0<\/p>\n

      4.4. L\u1eafng nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd.\u00a0<\/p>\n

      Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0a ra cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n.\u00a0<\/p>\n

      T\u1ea1m k\u1ebft<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 nice guy syndrome<\/strong> \u2013 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 Masterskills mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n. Hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng, b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nice guy syndrome l\u00e0 g\u00ec, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

      N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u00eam b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Masterskills h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p chi ti\u1ebft nh\u00e9.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb trong \u0111\u00e1y l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? B\u1ea1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb h\u1ecd? N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[427],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47407"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47407"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47407\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47407"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47407"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47407"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}