{"id":47595,"date":"2023-12-16T18:50:43","date_gmt":"2023-12-16T18:50:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ton-tai-hay-khong-love-language-tai-noi-cong-so.html"},"modified":"2023-12-16T18:50:43","modified_gmt":"2023-12-16T18:50:43","slug":"ton-tai-hay-khong-love-language-tai-noi-cong-so","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ton-tai-hay-khong-love-language-tai-noi-cong-so.html","title":{"rendered":"T\u1ed3n T\u1ea1i Hay Kh\u00f4ng Love Language T\u1ea1i N\u01a1i C\u00f4ng S\u1edf?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"col\">\n<p>\u1ede n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf c\u0169ng c\u00f3 love language sao? Love language th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng love language th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t c\u0169ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i l\u00e0m, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 len l\u1ecfi nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f9ng Masterskills kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf th\u00ec \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a <strong>love language l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong> nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-love-language-la-gi\"><strong>Love language l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Love language c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u2013 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, s\u1ef1 y\u00eau qu\u00fd gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Gary Chapman c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n \u201c<em>The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate<\/em>\u201d \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 <strong>n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong> c\u1ea3 th\u1ea3y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Words of Affirmation \u2013 L\u1eddi n\u00f3i, t\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean<\/li>\n<li>Quality time \u2013 Th\u1eddi gian \u00fd ngh\u0129a b\u00ean nhau<\/li>\n<li>Acts of service \u2013 H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/li>\n<li>Gift giving \u2013 T\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0<\/li>\n<li>Physical touch \u2013 \u0110\u1ed9ng ch\u1ea1m c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>B\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, th\u00ec trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f4i b\u00ean s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 xoa d\u1ecbu nhau m\u1ed7i khi c\u1ea7n.\u00a0<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/love-language-tai-noi-cong-so-1024x683-1.jpg\" alt=\"5 love languages l\u00e0 g\u00ec\" class=\"wp-image-33546\" width=\"500\" title=\"love-language-tai-noi-cong-so-1024x683-1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/love-language-tai-noi-cong-so-1024x683-1.jpg\" alt=\"5 love languages l\u00e0 g\u00ec\" class=\"wp-image-33546\" width=\"500\" title=\"love-language-tai-noi-cong-so-1024x683-1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">5 love languages l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u1ede n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng kh\u00f4ng?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-li\u1ec7u-co-th\u1ec3-ap-d\u1ee5ng-love-language-n\u01a1i-cong-s\u1edf\"><strong>Li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng love language n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Love language \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111i l\u00e0m tho\u1ea1t nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f4ng s\u1edf h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t, ph\u1ea1m vi c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 g\u00f3i g\u1ecdn trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 minh ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n<p>Khi \u0111i l\u00e0m, s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh song song v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ho\u00e1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 v\u0103n ho\u00e1 doanh nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, k\u00e9o theo \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00f3m nhu\u1ea7n nhuy\u1ec5n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng cao.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-cach-th\u1ec3-hi\u1ec7n-nam-ngon-ng\u1eef-tinh-yeu-khi-di-lam\"><strong>C\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi \u0111i l\u00e0m<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a love language khi \u00e1p l\u00ean n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 v\u1eeba v\u1eb7n. B\u1edfi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u201c\u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ea1m c\u01a1 th\u1ec3\u201d s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec5n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng hay ho ch\u00fat n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ri\u00eang.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y, c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a love language l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"577\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/love-language-at-work-1024x577-1.jpg\" alt=\"n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\" class=\"wp-image-33539\" title=\"love-language-at-work-1024x577-1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"577\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/love-language-at-work-1024x577-1.jpg\" alt=\"n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\" class=\"wp-image-33539\" title=\"love-language-at-work-1024x577-1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Love language l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf theo \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a Masterskills.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-words-of-affirmation-t\u1eeb-ng\u1eef-d\u1ed9ng-vien-khich-l\u1ec7\"><strong>#1: Words of Affirmation (T\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Words of affirmation l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t trong 5 lo\u1ea1i love language. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 khi \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u0169ng v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, t\u1eeb giao ti\u1ebfp r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, khen ng\u1ee3i, hay tr\u1ea5n an khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c g\u1eb7p \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb ng\u1eef y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f3 th\u00eam ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed7i khi tinh th\u1ea7n c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n<p>Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a words of affirmation n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>C\u00f4ng khai khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<li>Ch\u00fac m\u1eebng khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/li>\n<li>\u0110\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n<\/li>\n<li>\u0110\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-quality-time-kho\u1ea3ng-th\u1eddi-gian-ch\u1ea5t-l\u01b0\u1ee3ng\"><strong>#2: Quality Time (Kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Theo Paul White, th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u1edf ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 h\u1ecd hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>Trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi lu\u00f4n h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00e1 \u201cv\u00f4 v\u1ecb\u201d nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do thay v\u00ec k\u00e9o d\u00e0i h\u00e0ng m\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n 5 ph\u00fat h\u1ecfi han v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/type-of-love-language-1024x684-1.jpg\" alt=\"type of love language\" class=\"wp-image-33541\" width=\"500\" title=\"type-of-love-language-1024x684-1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/type-of-love-language-1024x684-1.jpg\" alt=\"type of love language\" class=\"wp-image-33541\" width=\"500\" title=\"type-of-love-language-1024x684-1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u00fd ngh\u0129a b\u00ean nhau l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quality time trong love language.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>V\u00ec v\u1eady, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua l\u00fac b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdp 1:1 v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ea1n tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, c\u00f9ng ng\u1ed3i \u0103n m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a ho\u1eb7c r\u1ee7 nhau \u0111i mua \u0111\u1ed3 u\u1ed1ng gi\u1edd gi\u1ea3i lao.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p<\/li>\n<li>C\u00f9ng nhau th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n sau khi m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh<\/li>\n<li>T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1ecbch h\u1eb9n, kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi l\u1ecbch ho\u1eb7c hu\u1ef7 h\u1eb9n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, v.v.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-gift-giving-t\u1eb7ng-qua\"><strong>#3: Gift giving (T\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>T\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ch\u1eb3ng v\u00ec d\u1ecbp g\u00ec, l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng s\u1ef1 y\u00eau qu\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>\u1ede n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0i m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 nh\u1ecf xinh nh\u00e2n ng\u00e0y Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ho\u1eb7c ng\u00e0y Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf nam gi\u1edbi. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cchi\u00eau \u0111\u00e3i\u201d nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 nho nh\u1ecf khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/nam-ngon-ngu-tinh-yeu-gift-giving-1024x691-1.jpg\" alt=\"gift giving\" class=\"wp-image-33542\" width=\"500\" title=\"nam-ngon-ngu-tinh-yeu-gift-giving-1024x691-1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/nam-ngon-ngu-tinh-yeu-gift-giving-1024x691-1.jpg\" alt=\"gift giving\" class=\"wp-image-33542\" width=\"500\" title=\"nam-ngon-ngu-tinh-yeu-gift-giving-1024x691-1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">T\u1eb7ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 v\u1eadt l\u00fd v\u00e0 cho nhau c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 gift giving.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>C\u00e1c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 v\u0103n ho\u00e1 mua qu\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 s\u1ebfp khi \u0111i du l\u1ecbch v\u1ec1. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n h\u1ecd y\u00eau qu\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebfp cho c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1eed s\u1ee9c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n m\u1edbi m\u1ebb so v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eed s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-acts-of-service-hanh-d\u1ed9ng-giup-d\u1ee1\"><strong>#4: Acts of Service (H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Theo \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a Gary Chapman, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 l\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, acts of service hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00ecnh h\u00e0i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u00f3i. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a love language n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u201cm\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u1ef1a\u201d trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c chung hay ch\u1edbi v\u1edbi v\u00ec nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/acts-of-service-1024x811-1.jpg\" alt=\"love language l\u00e0 g\u00ec\" class=\"wp-image-33545\" width=\"500\" title=\"acts-of-service-1024x811-1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/acts-of-service-1024x811-1.jpg\" alt=\"love language l\u00e0 g\u00ec\" class=\"wp-image-33545\" width=\"500\" title=\"acts-of-service-1024x811-1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Acts of service = C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Chia s\u1ebb t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u khi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ea7n<\/li>\n<li>Gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n g\u1ea5p<\/li>\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0a ra ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn khi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eafc, v.v.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-physical-touch-giao-ti\u1ebfp-c\u01a1-th\u1ec3\"><strong>#5: Physical touch (Giao ti\u1ebfp c\u01a1 th\u1ec3)\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Trong n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t da th\u1ecbt ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ea3y ra khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 cho ph\u00e9p v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nhau.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y khi \u1edf m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tinh t\u1ebf g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t n\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/physical-touch-love-language-at-work-1024x687-1.jpg\" alt=\"physical touch at work\" class=\"wp-image-33543\" width=\"500\" title=\"physical-touch-love-language-at-work-1024x687-1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/12\/physical-touch-love-language-at-work-1024x687-1.jpg\" alt=\"physical touch at work\" class=\"wp-image-33543\" width=\"500\" title=\"physical-touch-love-language-at-work-1024x687-1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Physical touch = c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p, \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ea1m c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00e1i g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi khi g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t, c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, c\u00e1i v\u1ed7 nh\u1eb9 l\u00ean vai an \u1ee7i c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m l\u1eabn nhau.<\/p>\n<p>Tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i qu\u00e1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef t\u00ednh l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, tinh t\u1ebf.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-t\u1ea1m-k\u1ebft\"><strong>T\u1ea1m k\u1ebft<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u00c1p d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ecdi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n<p>Song, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u1ecbnh h\u00f3t, c\u1ed1 t\u1eb7ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n, hay hy sinh l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp hay t\u0103ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1eb1ng th\u1ef1c l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u01a1i n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m kh\u00f3 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Mong r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 <strong>love language l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong> qua b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Masterskills. \u0110\u1eebng qu\u00ean c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin h\u1eefu \u00edch nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi Masterskills Vi\u1ec7t Nam nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n<p><em>Tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>The 5 love languages at work: how to choose the right words for team success<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>What\u2019s Your Workplace Love Language?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u1ede n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf c\u0169ng c\u00f3 love language sao? Love language th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng love language th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t c\u0169ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i l\u00e0m, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[427],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47595"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47595"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47595\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47595"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47595"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47595"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}