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\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft h\u00f4m nay Masterskills s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 small talk l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong>? Khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n small talk? L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c small talk ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh? H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

1. Small talk l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Small talk \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, th\u00e2n m\u1eadt m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a small talk l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u h\u1ecd h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng small talk \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi l\u1ea1. Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c. Theo kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t, nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c small talk. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n small talk th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n thay v\u00ec small talk.<\/p>\n

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Small talk l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n

2. Khi n\u00e0o th\u00ec small talk?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t small talk, b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u small talk b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cho l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, l\u00fac n\u00e0y h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u x\u00e3 giao \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n.\u00a0<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u1ea7u khi \u0111ang \u1edf trong ph\u00f2ng ch\u1edd kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh, x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng mua v\u00e9, v.v. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed9c small talk c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf nh\u01b0 trong thang m\u00e1y, nh\u00e0 \u0103n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 \u1edf ph\u00f2ng ngh\u1ec9. Do \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecfi khi n\u00e0o th\u00ec small talk th\u00ec c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3.\u00a0<\/p>\n

3. C\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c small talk\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n

3.1. H\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf<\/strong><\/h3>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang (th\u00edch, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch v\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng) s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t \u00edt. N\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb, n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

3.2. T\u1eadp l\u1eafng nghe ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/strong><\/h3>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu t\u1eadp trung l\u1eafng nghe. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai. S\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi li\u00ean quan v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1edb c\u00e1c chi ti\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n sau n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nghe b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 hai tai.<\/p>\n

3.3. \u0110\u1eebng d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i khi \u0111ang small talk\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng r\u00fat \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i ra khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3 x\u1eed trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u01b0\u1edbt \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e3 \u00fd tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c small talk khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i tr\u00ean tay.\u00a0<\/p>\n

3. 4. T\u1ecf r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Small talk c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tham gia v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui. H\u00e3y xem nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p ai ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecd s\u1ebd chia s\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, v\u00ec v\u1eady h\u00e3y n\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e2y b\u1edfi \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn th\u00fa v\u1ecb n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n

4. C\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c small talk\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb5n nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 small talk hay kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o n\u1ed7i lo l\u1eafng khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xa l\u1ea1.<\/p>\n

4.1 Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n hay khu h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb9p? Th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u00f4ng? G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 gh\u00e9 th\u0103m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m tham quan th\u00fa v\u1ecb g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, cho d\u00f9 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00edch cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh hay h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200b\u200b\u200bc\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. D\u00f9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i m\u1edbi th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng.\u00a0<\/p>\n

4.2 Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed<\/strong><\/h3>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n sau gi\u1edd l\u00e0m, h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tr\u00ean Netflix m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111ang theo d\u00f5i, b\u1ed9 phim hay m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai mu\u1ed1n xem, nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc, podcast b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nghe, v.v.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t h\u00e3y gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh, s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 phim \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 cho small talk b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

4.3 Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda<\/strong><\/h3>\n

N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u00edch ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd xem h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3o t\u00e0ng n\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n gh\u00e9 th\u0103m vi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3o t\u00e0ng n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c tri\u1ec3n l\u00e3m h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u00edch, ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 n\u00e0o h\u1ecd th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 li\u1ec7u h\u1ecd c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng tri\u1ec3n l\u00e3m n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt. C\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1edbi n\u00e0o \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd quan t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng ? Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y cho ph\u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 chia s\u1ebb suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m chung c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai.\u00a0<\/p>\n

4.4 Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00f3n \u0103n<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Th\u1ee9c \u0103n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 small talk hay v\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch \u0103n u\u1ed1ng. H\u1ecfi xem h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng n\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean g\u1ecdi m\u00f3n n\u00e0o khi \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111i \u0103n ngo\u00e0i, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi xem h\u1ecd th\u00edch n\u1ea5u m\u00f3n g\u00ec \u1edf nh\u00e0. M\u00f4 t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng s\u1eafp x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bc\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean n\u1ea5u ho\u1eb7c n\u00ean mang theo khi \u0111i l\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c \u0111i picnic.<\/p>\n

4.5 S\u1edf th\u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/strong><\/h3>\n

T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a small talk, v\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n khi b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

H\u1ecfi xem h\u1ecd l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh, nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o h\u1ecd tham gia ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c? S\u1edf th\u00edch th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd so v\u1edbi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 g\u00ec? H\u1ecd c\u00f3 tham gia b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong th\u1eddi gian t\u1edbi?.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhau trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

4.6 Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/strong><\/h3>\n

C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 small talk r\u1ea5t hay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Thay v\u00ec h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi chung chung nh\u01b0 \u201cB\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?\u201d \u201cB\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 bao l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i?\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cB\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00edch n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi small talk<\/strong> th\u00fa v\u1ecb, b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n.\u00a0<\/p>\n

4.7 Th\u1ec3 thao<\/strong><\/h3>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 thao c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd th\u00edch. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi th\u1ec3 thao th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy t\u1eafc chung khi th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft, c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3:<\/p>\n

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  • N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m c\u00f3 t\u1eeb hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf l\u00ean, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e2m m\u1ed9 th\u1ec3 thao, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham gia ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/li>\n
  • M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec cho m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn, h\u00e3y thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    4.8 Th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u01a1i d\u1eady m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn.<\/p>\n

    H\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ki\u1ec3u kh\u00ed h\u1eadu y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd th\u00edch n\u00f3. C\u00e1c nghi l\u1ec5 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng theo m\u00f9a c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd li\u00ean quan nh\u01b0: H\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ngh\u1ec9 l\u1ec5 trong n\u0103m? C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m, chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i n\u00e0o h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p trong d\u1ecbp n\u00e0y?.<\/p>\n

    4.9 Du l\u1ecbch<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i du l\u1ecbch kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecfi xem g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111i du l\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i n\u00e0o th\u00fa v\u1ecb hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 small talk kh\u00e1c. T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u, \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 ho\u00e0nh tr\u00e1ng hay nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i trong k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 du l\u1ecbch th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

    H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c xung quanh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m trong chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed1n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

    L\u1eddi k\u1ebft<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    Qua b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft tr\u00ean c\u1ee7a Masterskills ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 small talk l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong>? Hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c small talk th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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