{"id":4787,"date":"2023-11-30T02:54:42","date_gmt":"2023-11-30T02:54:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/?p=4787"},"modified":"2023-11-30T05:46:31","modified_gmt":"2023-11-30T05:46:31","slug":"7-ky-nang-giup-xay-dung-moi-quan-ben-vung","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/7-ky-nang-giup-xay-dung-moi-quan-ben-vung.html","title":{"rendered":"7 K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>1. Lu\u00f4n l\u1ea1c quan, y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt s\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu khi \u1edf g\u1ea7n b\u00ean b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, th\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh xa b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 vui m\u1eebng, sung s\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. V\u1ebb m\u1eb7t t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t. Truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c quan, ngu\u1ed3n sinh l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, s\u1ebd \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>2. L\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>L\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m ch\u00fa s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n n\u1eefa trong vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p s\u00e2u xa nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, n\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. L\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec anh ta\/c\u00f4 ta n\u00f3i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng l\u1eb7ng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n h\u1ecd. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i. T\u1eadp trung m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m ch\u00fa v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb1ng sau l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim. Ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ngay trong l\u00fac giao ti\u1ebfp. V\u00ec v\u1eady h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd. C\u00f2n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u00ean trong th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1edfi \u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00e0 t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n nghe v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>3. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 c\u01a1 s\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra hai m\u1ed1i li\u00ean\u00a0h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t. \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ebfn quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Vui v\u1ebb b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng s\u01a1 su\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng sai s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Hay \u0111\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng, quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u01a1 su\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3n b\u00e1c. Chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi vinh quang, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. M\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 l\u00f2ng tin t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>4. H\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch\u00a0kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o. \u0110o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n theo t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp hay h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t l\u00f2ng tin. Ch\u00fang kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 s\u1eafc th\u00e1i, \u00fd ngh\u0129a , c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 va ch\u1ea1m. N\u00ean h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khen ng\u1ee3i h\u1ecd, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m k\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean. S\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 hay l\u00e0m n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9\u00a0qua vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n\u00a0b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a\u00a0m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. \u0110\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m d\u1ebbo \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00edch\u00a0\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n l\u1edbn. H\u00e0nh vi h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c s\u1ebd x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea7y tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh li\u00ean k\u1ebft l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>6. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c. Khi b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ra, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng tin\u00a0t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n trong ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. L\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m. T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n.\u00a0H\u00e0nh\u00a0\u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o\u00a0n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t \u0111i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Khen ng\u1ee3i<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khen ng\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec ai c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u1ea5m v\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y x\u00e3 giao theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Lu\u00f4n l\u1ea1c quan, y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt s\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu khi \u1edf g\u1ea7n b\u00ean b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, th\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh xa b\u1ea1n. 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