{"id":70084,"date":"2024-01-29T17:32:38","date_gmt":"2024-01-29T10:32:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/cuoc-doi-thoai-kinh-dien-giua-hai-cha-con-danh-trung-noi-long-hang-trieu-phu-huynh-nen-day-con-sao-cho-dung.html"},"modified":"2024-01-29T17:32:38","modified_gmt":"2024-01-29T10:32:38","slug":"cuoc-doi-thoai-kinh-dien-giua-hai-cha-con-danh-trung-noi-long-hang-trieu-phu-huynh-nen-day-con-sao-cho-dung","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/cuoc-doi-thoai-kinh-dien-giua-hai-cha-con-danh-trung-noi-long-hang-trieu-phu-huynh-nen-day-con-sao-cho-dung.html","title":{"rendered":"Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n gi\u1eefa hai cha con \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u00fang n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ph\u1ee5 huynh: N\u00ean d\u1ea1y con sao cho \u0111\u00fang?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa hai b\u1ed1 con nh\u01b0 sau:\u00a0<\/p>\n

– Con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea3y n\u1eefa?<\/i><\/p>\n

– T\u1ea1i sao?<\/i><\/p>\n

– Nh\u1ea3y m\u1ec7t l\u1eafm b\u1ed1 \u1ea1, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, con mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc h\u00e1t.<\/i><\/p>\n

– \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u1eady th\u00ec h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i con th\u00edch.<\/i><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng sau:<\/p>\n

– Con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc h\u00e1t n\u1eefa.<\/i><\/p>\n

– Sao th\u1ebf?<\/i><\/p>\n

– Con h\u00e1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00e0n gi\u1ecdng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn h\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng hay, con mu\u1ed1n ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01a1i.<\/i><\/p>\n

– Th\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, con v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p con.<\/i><\/p>\n

10 n\u0103m sau, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t\u00a0bu\u1ed5i bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 m\u1eebng n\u0103m m\u1edbi, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebft m\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kia kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m g\u00ec n\u00ean l\u0129nh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 lau ch\u00f9i v\u00e0 qu\u00e9t s\u00e0n. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

– L\u1ebd ra, n\u1ebfu ng\u00e0y nh\u1ecf con kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, th\u00ec b\u1ed1 ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1n, \u00e9p con. Con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n, b\u1ed1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, b\u1ed1 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft hay sao?<\/i><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i n\u00ean l\u1eddi.\u00a0\u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t s\u1edf th\u00edch, m\u1ed9t k\u0129 n\u0103ng? L\u00e0 “t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng” \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb con tr\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i?<\/p>\n

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\"Cu\u1ed9c<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

“Sao ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p con?”<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng 99% tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 r\u1eb1ng: Con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa.\u00a0T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 99% tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 99% ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc.<\/span><\/p>\n

So v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c “y\u00eau h\u1ecdc”, “gh\u00e9t h\u1ecdc” c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 “t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng” \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3!\u00a0V\u00ec l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u1edf M\u1ef9 cho th\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 IQ m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb con l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00e2n l\u00fd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u00a0Con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh sau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu bao nhi\u00eau kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3.\u00a0<\/span>N\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0y, ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh, c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u00ecnh b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c, v\u1eady th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y ch\u00fang s\u1ebd h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea1i sao l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng c\u1eafn r\u0103ng ki\u00ean tr\u00ec.\u00a0<\/span>B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i, t\u1ea1i sao ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p con, d\u1eabu sao th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 mang t\u00ednh giai \u0111o\u1ea1n?<\/span><\/p>\n

Con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn xa nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec n\u00ean c\u00f3<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

Nh\u00e0 kinh t\u1ebf h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 James J. Herman \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng kinh t\u1ebf l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c cho tr\u1ebb ngay t\u1eeb s\u1edbm s\u1ebd cho ra l\u1ee3i t\u1ee9c cao nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u t\u01b0 1 \u0111\u00f4 cho tr\u1ebb em t\u1eeb 0-3 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i 18 \u0111\u00f4.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u t\u01b0 1 \u0111\u00f4 cho tr\u1ebb em t\u1eeb 3-4 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i 7 \u0111\u00f4.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u t\u01b0 1 \u0111\u00f4 khi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u0111i h\u1ecdc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i 3 \u0111\u00f4.<\/p>\n

\u1ede giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 1 \u0111\u00f4 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 1 \u0111\u00f4.<\/p>\n

H\u00e0 Du Qu\u00e2n, con trai c\u1ee7a vua c\u1edd b\u1ea1c n\u1ee9c ti\u1ebfng H\u1ed3ng K\u00f4ng, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t.\u00a0Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta truy\u1ec1n tai nhau r\u1eb1ng H\u00e0 Du Qu\u00e2n l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng t\u1eed, sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1eadm th\u00eca v\u00e0ng, c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng c\u01a1m \u00e1o g\u1ea1o ti\u1ec1n.\u00a0<\/span>Nh\u01b0ng anh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3, anh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng t\u1eed kh\u00e1c, c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng.\u00a0<\/span>Anh quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng Ivy League danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 – MIT, n\u01a1i anh c\u0169ng l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng th\u1ea1c s\u0129.\u00a0<\/span>H\u00e0 Du Qu\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc m\u00e0 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, anh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng “tay ch\u01a1i” kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ra sao?\u00a0Cha c\u1ee7a H\u00e0 Du Qu\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i:\u00a0<\/span>“T\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9. S\u1ef1 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf m\u00e3i b\u00ean con, nh\u01b0ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n mang l\u1ea1i cho con l\u1ee3i \u00edch.”<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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\"Cu\u1ed9c<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung khi l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t\u00a0<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec3m g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi: “Khi t\u00f4i gi\u00fap con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng con.”<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u00e0m v\u1eady m\u00e0, khi con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u00ecn con m\u00e0.”<\/p>\n

V\u1eady th\u00ec xin ph\u00e9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c sau ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng xem video v\u00e0 v\u1eb7n dung l\u01b0\u1ee3ng to khi con \u0111ang l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp? Khi con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u00f4n b\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng TikTok? Khi con c\u1ea7n \u00f4n b\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng?<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f9ng con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 mang t\u00ednh h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf con h\u1ecd c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0? B\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ra sao? Cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00fang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, c\u00e0ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e0ng ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, c\u00e0ng ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, c\u00e0ng th\u00edch ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn suy s\u1ee5p tinh th\u1ea7n, c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n.<\/p>\n

Trong khi vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t: M\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i, c\u00f9ng con gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc trong ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi con:\u00a0H\u00f4m nay con c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau b\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u1edf m\u1ed7i m\u00f4n? \u0110\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Con mu\u1ed1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Con mu\u1ed1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o?<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u1edf tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i vui v\u1ebb, tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u1eady th\u00ec n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u00f4n kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t tr\u01b0\u1edbc, kh\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc d\u1ec5 sau, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, v\u1eady th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean h\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i b\u00e0i t\u1eadp mang t\u00ednh c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n, khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i, h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung.\u00a0H\u00e3y l\u00e0m ph\u1ea7n b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 n\u00e0y trong n\u1eeda gi\u1edd, t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o n\u00f3, l\u00e0m xong r\u1ed3i, l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp kh\u00e1c.\u00a0<\/span>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m linh tinh n\u00ean ngh\u0129 k\u0129 r\u1ed3i h\u00e3y l\u00e0m, l\u00e0m xong r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng chuy\u1ec3n sang b\u00e0i t\u1eadp kh\u00e1c, ki\u1ec3m tra l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

Romain Rolland t\u1eebng n\u00f3i k\u1ebb th\u00f9 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu \u0111i s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ni\u1ec1m tin n\u00e0y t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, v\u1eady th\u00ec ai s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang khi ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean?<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u01a1ng D\u1ecbch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Thanh Hoa (ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ea1i Trung Qu\u1ed1c) v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec3m cao nh\u1ea5t m\u00f4n khoa h\u1ecdc trong k\u1ef3 thi tuy\u1ec3n sinh \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. C\u1eadu theo h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Thanh Hoa \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u1ea1c s\u0129.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i h\u01a1n tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu ch\u00ednh l\u00e0:\u00a0Th\u00e1ng 1\/2018, D\u01b0\u01a1ng D\u1ecbch l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o top 12 trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh t\u1ea1p k\u1ef9 “The Strongest Brain” \u2013 n\u01a1i quy t\u1ee5 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 cao th\u1ee7 to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh gi\u00e0nh ch\u1ee9c v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbch v\u1edbi t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i, c\u1eadu c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c thi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao danh hi\u1ec7u “Vua tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7”.\u00a0Nh\u01b0ng, \u00edt ai bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, “Con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa” l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 “Vua tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7” D\u01b0\u01a1ng <\/span>D\u1ecbch<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

“L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp 3, m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i n\u1ecd, khi \u0111ang l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y l\u0169 tr\u1ebb h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng. Khi \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i to\u00e1n nh\u01b0ng sai t\u1edbi ba l\u1ea7n. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed1ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01a1i b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9: “M\u1eb9 \u01a1i, con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa”.”<\/p>\n

Sau b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y:<\/p>\n

“G\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3, con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c con c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ra \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, con m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc, v\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1edbi l\u00fac \u0111i thi, khi g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00fang c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y, con s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i ngh\u0129 ‘v\u1ed1n d\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m c\u00e2u n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i, v\u1ed1n d\u0129 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e2u n\u00e0y m\u00e0’, con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au, nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb hai ch\u1eef “th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i”, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb “t\u00f4i v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m”.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eb9 D\u01b0\u01a1ng D\u1ecbch kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi con, v\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “vua tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7” c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i?<\/p>\n

B\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5, c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec.<\/p>\n

H\u1ecdc g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, d\u1ea1y con tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh ki\u00ean tr\u00ec ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean qua nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i cho m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u1ee3i \u00edch su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01b0u t\u00fa trong nhi\u1ec1u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c nhau, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n hay gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 t\u00ean “L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i” c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 sau:\u00a0“Tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n, nhanh ch\u00f3ng v\u00e0 cho ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 to l\u1edbn. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed5 x\u00f4 v\u00e0o c\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1i sau.”<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y, l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cho c\u1ea3 con tr\u1ebb, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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