{"id":70843,"date":"2024-03-16T00:48:14","date_gmt":"2024-03-15T17:48:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ask-masterskills-nhung-van-de-ve-gia-dinh-dam-me-va-cac-moi-quan-he.html"},"modified":"2024-03-16T00:48:14","modified_gmt":"2024-03-15T17:48:14","slug":"ask-masterskills-nhung-van-de-ve-gia-dinh-dam-me-va-cac-moi-quan-he","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ask-masterskills-nhung-van-de-ve-gia-dinh-dam-me-va-cac-moi-quan-he.html","title":{"rendered":"Ask Masterskills: Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ch\u00e0o Masterskills, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt. M\u00ecnh say m\u00ea ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, c\u0169ng t\u1eebng h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee5. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c m\u00f4n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00e1c s\u0129. Su\u1ed1t 15 n\u0103m h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh y khoa, kh\u00f4ng n\u0103m n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 n\u00ean d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cao c\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 t\u00e2m ri\u00eang khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u00e3n t\u00ednh. Kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t n\u0103m nay, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf ngh\u1ec1 y \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u lo s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 e d\u00e8\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00e0o b\u1ea1n, Masterskills c\u1ea3m \u01a1n c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i b\u0103n kho\u0103n c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 n\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e0u t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n v\u00e0 h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n thu nh\u1eadp cao \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u2013 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f2n t\u00f9y v\u00e0o t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

Trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o? Th\u1eadt vui khi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u00edch ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt t\u1eeb b\u00e9, tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n th\u1ebf. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng ngh\u1ec1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u0169ng m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 n\u00e0o. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh t\u1eeb l\u1ef1c l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea3o c\u00e1c ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh danh. Thay v\u00ec quy\u1ebft li\u1ec7t thay \u0111\u1ed5i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 d\u00e0nh m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y h\u1ecdc b\u1ed9 m\u00f4n ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt y\u00eau th\u00edch xem c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 ph\u00eda m\u00ecnh, Masterskills l\u1ea1c quan v\u1edbi tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; b\u1edfi l\u1ebd, d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 l\u00e0m b\u00e1c s\u0129 theo s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb \u0111am m\u00ea, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o gian nan \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 y\u0301 ch\u00ed, k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. 15 n\u0103m qua kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed v\u00ec nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trau d\u1ed3i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea1o n\u00ean th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o; gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi g\u1eb7p s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3. Masterskills ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

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Masterskills th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng khi b\u1ea1n trai n\u0103m l\u1ea7n b\u1ea3y l\u01b0\u1ee3t t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i g\u1eb7p gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh? Em v\u00e0 anh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 n\u0103m. T\u1eeb n\u0103m th\u1ee9 2 y\u00eau nhau, th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i n\u00ean em nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb b\u1ea1n trai v\u1ec1 ra m\u1eaft gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng anh lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u1edb tho\u00e1i th\u00e1c. Anh c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a em v\u1ec1 g\u1eb7p gia \u0111\u00ecnh anh, d\u00f9 em \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. N\u00f3i th\u00eam l\u00e0 ch\u00fang em c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i, \u1edf c\u00f9ng qu\u00ea v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i. Em d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh T\u1ebft n\u0103m nay s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n trai m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i, n\u1ebfu anh v\u1eabn t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ra m\u1eaft th\u00ec em bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y. Li\u1ec7u em c\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00e0o b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng suy t\u01b0 v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u1ee3p ly\u0301, x\u00e9t tr\u00ean ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n nay. Ba n\u0103m ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i th\u1eddi gian qu\u00e1 d\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ng\u1eafn v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu hai b\u1ea1n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh g\u1eafn b\u00f3 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, chuy\u1ec7n ra m\u1eaft gia \u0111\u00ecnh hai b\u00ean l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t n\u00ean l\u00e0m. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn cho th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a nhau. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m ch\u01b0a t\u1ef1 tin s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ng\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, v\u1eady th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1eadu \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u01b0a mu\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi n\u1ea5c thang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu h\u00ecnh dung v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn nhau, \u0111\u00e2y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 h\u1ed3i chu\u00f4ng b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e1ng suy ng\u1eabm. B\u1ea1n d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh trao \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, Masterskills mong b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00e2n d\u1ecbp n\u00e0y n\u00f3i r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m t\u01b0, nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ee7 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho c\u1ea3 hai. Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n b\u00ecnh an.<\/p>\n

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