{"id":71176,"date":"2024-04-25T01:48:04","date_gmt":"2024-04-24T18:48:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ask-masterskills-phu-nu-va-nhung-ap-luc-vo-hinh.html"},"modified":"2024-04-25T01:48:04","modified_gmt":"2024-04-24T18:48:04","slug":"ask-masterskills-phu-nu-va-nhung-ap-luc-vo-hinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ask-masterskills-phu-nu-va-nhung-ap-luc-vo-hinh.html","title":{"rendered":"Ask Masterskills: Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Hi\u1ec7n em \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty quy m\u00f4 nh\u1ecf, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110i\u1ec3m s\u00e1ng l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 m\u1ebfn, t\u1eeb c\u1ea5p l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, bi\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129 cho t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. Th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho em c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi quy m\u00f4 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu chuy\u1ec3n sang \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a em ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u00eam \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ed9ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea5u vi\u1ec7c m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn em b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u00e2m ly\u0301. Em ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft n\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00e0o Ph\u00e2n V\u00e2n, vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty nh\u1ecf v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty l\u1edbn v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u00e1p l\u1ef1c qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e2u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfp theo, h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n th\u00edch m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng hay \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t d\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c hay kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 trau d\u1ed3i k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty l\u1edbn s\u1ebd m\u1edf ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u01a1n. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c nhau, h\u00e3y l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u01b0u y\u0301 nh\u1ecf: n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u00e1ch quan, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng ty m\u1edbi \u1edf nh\u1eefng k\u00eanh kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u1eeb Masterskills<\/em> l\u00e0 h\u00e3y tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng tin m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00ean m\u1ecdi n\u1ebbo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n may m\u1eafn v\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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N\u0103m nay t\u00f4i b\u01b0\u1edbc sang tu\u1ed5i 35 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng sinh con. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i n\u1ebfu n\u0103m ngo\u00e1i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p anh \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00f4i g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, anh ng\u1ecf l\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ngay v\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n: anh t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 hai con nh\u1ecf. Hi\u1ec7n nay anh \u0111ang nu\u00f4i b\u00e9 l\u1edbn 10 tu\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p c\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ch\u1eafc m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u hay kh\u00f4ng\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n m\u1ebfn, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi Masterskills<\/em> c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf n\u00e0y. Masterskills<\/em> c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau. V\u1edbi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n trong kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0i n\u0103m m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. S\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0o lay chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m l\u1edbn nh\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea5y. Mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5, c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau to l\u1edbn m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 l\u00f2ng bao dung, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c hy sinh. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec vai tr\u00f2 \u201cm\u1eb9 k\u1ebf\u201d bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb n\u1ed1i g\u1ea7n kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. H\u00e3y t\u0103ng t\u1ea7n su\u1ea5t g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, c\u00f9ng \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, du l\u1ecbch, l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng nhau. Qua nh\u1eefng th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cha con h\u1ecd t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u0103ng kh\u00edt v\u00e0 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng y\u0301 ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00f3 n\u00ean l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0 b\u00e9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con b\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, h\u00e3y b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau lu\u00f4n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u1ea1n h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 n\u00e0y. Masterskills<\/em> mong r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi n\u1eeda kia \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm ra h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u00f9ng Masterskills l\u1eafng nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 \u0111ang b\u0103n kho\u0103n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ng\u00e3 r\u1ebd trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[427],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71176"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71176"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71176\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71176"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71176"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71176"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}